A little story behind the swans and the new name for this community. Swans mate for life. One partner, chosen carefully and kept forever. They’re soft, graceful, and calm on the surface, but they’re also fiercely selective. They don’t waste their love on someone who isn’t sure. They don’t perform for attention. They wait for the one that truly matches them. That’s the energy I want for every woman in here :) For so long, women have been told that being soft means being endlessly available. That to be chosen, you have to shrink, bend, stay quiet, stay easy, and prove your worth. So we overthink. We over-give. We text first, wait around, care too much, and wonder why we keep ending up with men who feel lukewarm at best. But softness was never the problem. Being available to anyone was. The most magnetic women are soft and selective. Warm, feminine, discerning, and completely unwilling to settle for less than what they want. They choose like swans. Carefully. Fully. And only when it’s right. That’s what I want us to build in here. Let’s reintroduce ourselves 🤍 Old member or brand new, I’d love for us to meet each other again. Go make a new intro post! Drop a comment with: 1. Your name 2. Where you’re from 3. Your favorite book or the one you're reading now I’ll go first below. Can’t wait to meet you again :) Soft in energy. Selective in standards. Hi, I’m Maureen Evelyn. I’m currently in Bangkok, originally from Virginia, and before I met Niklavs I was living in Scottsdale, Arizona. Right now I’m reading Why Men Lie and Women Cry, and it’s been SO good so far.

And I'll answer below :) Dating, relationship, ask me anything

Hey soft & selective beautiful women 🌸🫧🤍✨💖🦢 I’m Natalia. I’m from the country of pizza, pasta and beauty, italy 🇮🇹 Right now I’m looking for a new book to read on magic and love, positive and uplifting ✨ I read and study a lot about health as an Integrative nutrition health coach and health books are my favourite books. I have a gift for healing, and it has helped me create a beautiful life for myself, my whole family, my loved ones and my clients 🫶

I want to take a second to personally welcome the women who just joined Soft & Selective. You're not just a member count to me - I see every single one of you walking through the door, and I'm so glad you're here. Welcome in: @Nikki Webster @Mai Mohammed @Breanne Holaday @Regina Jimenez @Clara Whittaker @Lauren Blakey @Jule Garstman @Katie Miller @Mina Mineva @Salwa Alsharif @Mish Rodriguez @Isabelle Haile @Isabelle Pak @Kavani K @Csilla Mikita @M. Hogan @Dy Kim @Eliza Buliga @Amanda Goncalves @Amandine Huard @Ruzeth Db This community is for women who are done shrinking, chasing, and overthinking. Women who want to be soft and selective. Warm and discerning. Open and unwilling to settle. Two things to do today so we can get to know you: 1. Make a short intro post today with your name, where you're from, and your favorite book. That's it. One post. Even a one-liner counts. 2. Say hi to the women already here! Send 5 dms to other members, you might just meet your new best friend. 3.Watch your first module inside classroom on feminine energy, it'll take you straight to youtube and you can even comment and ask me a question while you watch! The women who get the most out of this community are the ones who post and comment, not just scroll. So drop a 🦢 in the comments just to say I'm here - even if that's all you do today.