Hi ladies 🦢🩷🦢 I'm Tereza (26) and come from Slovakia. I have been living in the capital of Czech Republic Prague since I started university there. I graduated last year in September and work now as a software developer 💻 Currently I'm not dating or looking for a relationship because I have recently experienced a break up after over 4 years together. I want to focus on myself now and show myself that I can have a full life without some guy in it 👸 Then, when I'm ready and Mr. Right comes along the way he is more than welcomed to share the journey 😁 Now I'm reading some books about manifestation and how our mindset shapes our reality (they are only in Slovak). I plan to read The Biology of Belief. From classics I like Jane Eyre, Pride and Prejudice, and Animal Farm. And my childhood and teenage favorite is Harry Potter which I read many times 🪄 And I do have a very tiny dog called Hermiona, she is 1 year old 🐕

Hiii everyone! 👋🏻 My name is Ruzeth and I'm an actress/artist from South Africa. I just finished my business degree and am busy writing a feature film which I plan to produce in the near future. I'm excited to learn from Maureen so I can excel personally and professionally, and I'd love to connect with you girls and support you! 🦢🤗💗 Honestly, I don't think I can choose any one favorite book, so I'm going to list a few. When it comes to fiction, Jennifer Lynn Barnes' Inheritance Games book series is impeccable. And who doesn't love Jane Austen's Pride & Prejudice? Some of my favorite business-related books include Mainstreet Millionaire (Codie Sanchez), Emotion by Design (Greg Hoffman), Diary of a CEO (Steven Bartlett), and Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss). Then in terms of psychology, I greatly enjoyed Becoming Bulletproof (Evy Poumpouras) and The Laws of Human Nature (Robert Green). My personal favorite in psychology, however, is Please Understand Me II (David Keirsey); in my opinion, it is THE best resource on understanding different personality types holistically. Finally, a book that changed my life this year is Maribel Franchesca's Before the World Named You. She dives deep into how the social media, social circles, and comparison (among other things) distort your identity, and more importantly, how to uncover your identity underneath all the labels and lies. Thank you for reading, let me know if you've read one of these books, or plan to!

A little story behind the swans and the new name for this community. Swans mate for life. One partner, chosen carefully and kept forever. They’re soft, graceful, and calm on the surface, but they’re also fiercely selective. They don’t waste their love on someone who isn’t sure. They don’t perform for attention. They wait for the one that truly matches them. That’s the energy I want for every woman in here :) For so long, women have been told that being soft means being endlessly available. That to be chosen, you have to shrink, bend, stay quiet, stay easy, and prove your worth. So we overthink. We over-give. We text first, wait around, care too much, and wonder why we keep ending up with men who feel lukewarm at best. But softness was never the problem. Being available to anyone was. The most magnetic women are soft and selective. Warm, feminine, discerning, and completely unwilling to settle for less than what they want. They choose like swans. Carefully. Fully. And only when it’s right. That’s what I want us to build in here. Let’s reintroduce ourselves 🤍 Old member or brand new, I’d love for us to meet each other again. Go make a new intro post! Drop a comment with: 1. Your name 2. Where you’re from 3. Your favorite book or the one you're reading now I’ll go first below. Can’t wait to meet you again :) Soft in energy. Selective in standards. Hi, I’m Maureen Evelyn. I’m currently in Bangkok, originally from Virginia, and before I met Niklavs I was living in Scottsdale, Arizona. Right now I’m reading Why Men Lie and Women Cry, and it’s been SO good so far.

I want to take a second to personally welcome the women who just joined Soft & Selective. You're not just a member count to me - I see every single one of you walking through the door, and I'm so glad you're here. Welcome in: @Nikki Webster @Mai Mohammed @Breanne Holaday @Regina Jimenez @Clara Whittaker @Lauren Blakey @Jule Garstman @Katie Miller @Mina Mineva @Salwa Alsharif @Mish Rodriguez @Isabelle Haile @Isabelle Pak @Kavani K @Csilla Mikita @M. Hogan @Dy Kim @Eliza Buliga @Amanda Goncalves @Amandine Huard @Ruzeth Db This community is for women who are done shrinking, chasing, and overthinking. Women who want to be soft and selective. Warm and discerning. Open and unwilling to settle. Two things to do today so we can get to know you: 1. Make a short intro post today with your name, where you're from, and your favorite book. That's it. One post. Even a one-liner counts. 2. Say hi to the women already here! Send 5 dms to other members, you might just meet your new best friend. 3.Watch your first module inside classroom on feminine energy, it'll take you straight to youtube and you can even comment and ask me a question while you watch! The women who get the most out of this community are the ones who post and comment, not just scroll. So drop a 🦢 in the comments just to say I'm here - even if that's all you do today.