Okay ladies, I had the idea of adding something like a Husband Material Score, where you can upload text messages from him, maybe his dating profile information about him. The more you upload, the more accurate it is, and then we'll rank him on his ability to communicate and his emotional IQ and a bunch of other metrics. We'll give him a Husband Material Score. I made a rough draft idea before we build it out with our designer and Niklavs. I'd love to know what features you'd like added to this as we build it into Alora. I think it's going to be so much fun to have this. Also, if you're dating and you have multiple men in mind, I was thinking maybe you could add multiple men to see how they compare. You have a place where you can be vulnerable and honest about how he's making you feel and keep track of if the relationship is getting better or worse. Whats one thing you'd like this husband score to include? Also any other features you want added or removed from Alora? Im all ears

A little story behind the swans and the new name for this community. Swans mate for life. One partner, chosen carefully and kept forever. They’re soft, graceful, and calm on the surface, but they’re also fiercely selective. They don’t waste their love on someone who isn’t sure. They don’t perform for attention. They wait for the one that truly matches them. That’s the energy I want for every woman in here :) For so long, women have been told that being soft means being endlessly available. That to be chosen, you have to shrink, bend, stay quiet, stay easy, and prove your worth. So we overthink. We over-give. We text first, wait around, care too much, and wonder why we keep ending up with men who feel lukewarm at best. But softness was never the problem. Being available to anyone was. The most magnetic women are soft and selective. Warm, feminine, discerning, and completely unwilling to settle for less than what they want. They choose like swans. Carefully. Fully. And only when it’s right. That’s what I want us to build in here. Let’s reintroduce ourselves 🤍 Old member or brand new, I’d love for us to meet each other again. Go make a new intro post! Drop a comment with: 1. Your name 2. Where you’re from 3. Your favorite book or the one you're reading now I’ll go first below. Can’t wait to meet you again :) Soft in energy. Selective in standards. Hi, I’m Maureen Evelyn. I’m currently in Bangkok, originally from Virginia, and before I met Niklavs I was living in Scottsdale, Arizona. Right now I’m reading Why Men Lie and Women Cry, and it’s been SO good so far.

And I'll answer below :) Dating, relationship, ask me anything

I want to take a second to personally welcome the women who just joined Soft & Selective. You're not just a member count to me - I see every single one of you walking through the door, and I'm so glad you're here. Welcome in: @Nikki Webster @Mai Mohammed @Breanne Holaday @Regina Jimenez @Deleted @Lauren Blakey @Jule Garstman @Katie Miller @Mina Mineva @Salwa Alsharif @Mish Rodriguez @Isabelle Haile @Isabelle Pak @Kavani K @Csilla Mikita @M. Hogan @Dy Kim @Eliza Buliga @Amanda Goncalves @Amandine Huard @Ruzeth Db This community is for women who are done shrinking, chasing, and overthinking. Women who want to be soft and selective. Warm and discerning. Open and unwilling to settle. Two things to do today so we can get to know you: 1. Make a short intro post today with your name, where you're from, and your favorite book. That's it. One post. Even a one-liner counts. 2. Say hi to the women already here! Send 5 dms to other members, you might just meet your new best friend. 3.Watch your first module inside classroom on feminine energy, it'll take you straight to youtube and you can even comment and ask me a question while you watch! The women who get the most out of this community are the ones who post and comment, not just scroll. So drop a 🦢 in the comments just to say I'm here - even if that's all you do today.

Hi ladies 🦢🩷🦢 I'm Tereza (26) and come from Slovakia. I have been living in the capital of Czech Republic Prague since I started university there. I graduated last year in September and work now as a software developer 💻 Currently I'm not dating or looking for a relationship because I have recently experienced a break up after over 4 years together. I want to focus on myself now and show myself that I can have a full life without some guy in it 👸 Then, when I'm ready and Mr. Right comes along the way he is more than welcomed to share the journey 😁 Now I'm reading some books about manifestation and how our mindset shapes our reality (they are only in Slovak). I plan to read The Biology of Belief. From classics I like Jane Eyre, Pride and Prejudice, and Animal Farm. And my childhood and teenage favorite is Harry Potter which I read many times 🪄 And I do have a very tiny dog called Hermiona, she is 1 year old 🐕