A Good Life Isnโt an Easy Life
I saw a quote Alex Hormozi shared a while back that stuck with me. It's short so I'll paste it here: "Imagine you're talking to god about the person you want to become... - You say "I want to be courageous." + God replies "Then I will give you monsters to terrify you. That way you can conquer them." - You say "I want to be patient." + God replies "Then I will make you work harder and longer. That way you can learn to wait." - You say "I want to be wise." + God replies "Then I will give you failures that will crush your spirit. That way you can learn the value of judgment." - You then say... "That sounds like a hard life. Can you give me a good life?" + God replies "Just like we measure the quality of a blacksmith by the strength of his steel, I measure you by what you are at the end, not the fire and the hammer it took to make you. A good life isn't an easy life. A good life makes you into a good person. And that, my child, is a hard life." I was listening to The Gap and The Gain by Benjamin Hardy when this came back to me. Because so many of us measure our lives in the gap. How far we are from our ideals. How much we still lack. How imperfect we feel. But thatโs not how progress works. As we look back on 2025.. the better question isnโt how short we fell. Itโs how far weโve come from where we started. The fears you face now are forming the courage you asked for. The waiting youโre doing fuels patience you wanted. The failures youโre carrying are creating wisdom being forged. The fire you're feeling is a gift. And when you measure your life that way.. you might realize itโs been good all along. ๐ - James