I’m so glad you’re here. This space was created because Instagram is loud, messy and not built for real learning or real support. So this is your calm corner. Inside this community you’ll find• clear parenting tools• short trainings and guides• honest conversations• weekly support• and a place where you can actually ask me questions directly This is not a course you need to rush through.There’s no pressure to “keep up.” Think of this as your parenting library. Come in when you need support. Rewatch things as many times as you want. Use what fits your family and your season. Start by introducing yourself below 👇🏻 Tell us • where you’re joining from • how old your kids are • and what feels hardest right now I’m really happy you’re here. Coach Maysaa 🤍

Hi everyone, welcome to Monday Reset. This week, we’re focusing on decreasing how much you repeat yourself. I’m going to walk you through this step by step… but just a reminder, this isn’t an overnight fix. All the posts this week will build on each other. Today is about the mindset shift. *From* : “Why does my child not listen to me?!” *to*: “How can I help my child hear me the first time?” “What is making it hard for my child to respond right now?” “What is needed from me right now?” “What am I doing after I say it?” Sit with these because there is NO point to stratgies until you (and I ;) have the information of what is going on. And this is where everything starts to change. So with these questions in mind, I want you to tell me below: 👉 Where do you think it’s breaking down right now? No judgement here :) ***And a quick reminder of the 3 core rules for setting your child up to listen: 1/ Be close enough so they can actually hear you 2/ Give one clear instruction, not multiple 3/ Make sure it’s reasonable for their age and state Ask anything below. Let’s keep the momentum rolling… and I’ll see you all on Wednesday for our monthly call! PS Use the chat box to ask me any questions that you want me to cover on the call!

Like going to School or their Activities or even Leaving the house. Many children get into a loop where they repeat: “I don’t want to go" or "I'm not doing xyz" or just ignore you... Once a child enters that loop, talking about it too much often makes it bigger. Their brain has already decided the moment feels uncomfortable. So instead of long conversations, try: Acknowledge once, then lead. “I hear you. Some mornings are harder. And today is still a school day.” Then keep the routine moving. Think of these moments like a menu of responses. Different tools work on different mornings. Inside the Emergency Column, 3 options often help move a child from stuck to cooperating: - Play Add lightness. Silly walk, hopping to the door, tiny game. - Challenge “Think you can beat me to the gate?” “Let’s see if you make it before I count to 10.” - Join them Walk with them. Put an arm around them. Move together. - You can also offer simple choices: “Do you want to walk in holding my hand or race me?” - Make sure you check out the olive branch ideas in the parenting library resource - If you haven’t already, check the Foundation videos and Olive Branch ideas in the resources. They’ll help make sense of these moments and give you more tools for your parenting toolbox. 🙂

Hello to all the new faces on here! I run group calls on Tuesdays at 2pm Dubai time (9pm AEST). You can find the call button on the calendar located on the top bar. Use the message function if you have any questions and don't forget to introduce yourself. Much love, coach Mays

The FIRST thing you need to do (after saying hello!) is to watch my EXACT system and steps to handle ANY parenting struggle. Here is the link. We will be talking about this on our FIRST online catch up on Feb 17th :)