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Maybe We Were Never Supposed to Fit In
Welcome to Odd One Out. 🖤 This is for the black sheep, the people rebuilding, those in recovery, those healing from trauma, and anyone who's ever wondered, “Why did nobody teach me this?” Here we'll get into the real-life stuff—self-sabotage, boundaries, coping skills, self-awareness, recovery, relationships, survival mode, patterns, and the everyday skills that somehow didn't come with an instruction manual. But this isn't a classroom where one person has all the answers. Some of the best lessons come from conversations with our peers—their lived experiences, perspectives, mistakes, successes, and ways of seeing something we may have never considered before. Because we don't know what we don't know—and that's okay. This is a space to ask questions, challenge old ways of thinking, learn practical tools, hear different perspectives, and maybe even share something you've learned that helps someone else. We'll approach things through a trauma-informed lens, lived experience, practical knowledge, and an out-of-the-box perspective. You don't need a certain diagnosis, recovery story, background, or label to belong here. Come as the odd one out. Learn what you weren't taught. Share what life taught you. Reclaim your life. And become who you were meant to be. 🖤 Your first Odd One Out assignment: 🖤 Skip the name, job title and traditional introduction. Tell us one thing you had to learn the hard way, something you're still figuring out, or something you wish someone would've taught you sooner. Not ready to share all that? That's okay too. Tell us what brought you to the Odd Side. 🐑
Quietly
Sometimes we're so used to looking for what needs fixed, handled, changed, or figured out that we completely miss what's... actually okay. Maybe even good. Not huge. Not life-changing. Just something that has gotten a little easier. Something you're handling differently. Something you built without realizing you were building it. What's been quietly going well for you lately? Tell me yours below. Sometimes we need someone else to remind us that the quiet wins count too.
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What actually matters to YOU?
We talk a lot about changing behaviors, making better choices, setting goals, rebuilding our lives... But rebuilding toward what? I think values are one of the strongest places to start—especially in recovery or anytime you're trying to figure out who you are outside of old patterns or while starting something new. Because here's the weird part: You can spend years believing something matters to you without ever stopping to ask if it actually does. Was it yours? Were you taught it? Did it help you survive at one point? Does it still fit who you are now? Does the way you're living even match what you say matters to you? 👀 That's where it gets interesting. I just added Underneath the Shoulds to the classroom. We start with figuring out what values even are and then dig into what's actually yours, what still fits, and what you want guiding where you go from here. Because changing your life is one thing. Knowing what you're building it around is another. 🖤 💬 Discussion: Without overthinking it, what’s one thing you know genuinely matters to you right now? And has that changed from what mattered to you a few years ago?
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Are You Keeping the Peace... or Losing Yourself?
Quick question: When you say yes to someone, how often do you actually stop and ask yourself if you WANT to say yes? Not whether you can do it. Not whether they need you. Not whether they'll be disappointed. Not whether saying yes makes you the helpful, dependable one. Just... Do I actually want to? People-pleasing isn't always obvious. Sometimes it looks like being helpful, keeping the peace, being the person everyone can count on, avoiding conflict, or just saying: “It's fine.” And sometimes... it really is fine. That's what makes this one interesting. The newest Odd One Out workshop: Keeping the Peace, Losing Yourself Understanding People-Pleasing & Finding Your Voice isn't about teaching you to say no to everyone or stop caring about other people. It's about figuring out your patterns, what may be underneath them, what they give you, what they might be costing you, and how to start making choices that actually include you too. If that little question at the top made you hesitate for even a second... this might be one worth checking out in the classroom..
What Stands Out to You?
We've been building quite a bit inside Odd One Out, and I'm curious... Which topic hits you and makes you think, “Yep, I could probably use that one”? Take a look through the trainings/workbooks we've created so far: - Finding Your Window — Understanding Your Window of Tolerance - Finding Your Spark — Rediscovering what interests you, what matters & what comes next - Getting to Know Your Nervous System - Relapse Prevention Plan - And a new one coming soon... Keeping the Peace, Losing Yourself You don't have to have taken any of them yet. Just look at the topics. Which one resonates with you most right now? Or... what's a topic you don't see that you'd love for us to dig into here? Drop it below. 👇 A lot of what gets created next will come from what we're actually talking about and struggling with in this community.
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