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This is why I stopped working with men — and why
A few years ago I stopped taking male clients.
The reason was simple: repeatedly, instead of professional requests I received sexualized messages and boundary-crossing propositions. About 70% of incoming “requests” are sexual in nature, not therapeutic.
So let me be crystal clear:
If you are here to fantasize, flirt, or seek intimacy with a therapist - leave now.
I will not tolerate it
Nor
waste my time.
Maybe you wonder Why they do it?
• Confusion of care and sexuality — some men cannot separate being cared for from being a sexual opportunity.
• Erotic transference acted out — instead of reflecting on projections, they act on them.
• Objectification — female professionals are reduced to sexual objects rather than respected for their expertise.
• Avoidance through fantasy — turning therapy into a sexual outlet to escape real vulnerability and shame.
And yes — online anonymity lowers inhibition, but many men behave this way offline too.
The pattern is real.
‼️ If you’re here to project fantasies — you’re not ready for therapy and you don’t belong in this community.‼️
‼️ Community note:
If you receive similar messages — screenshot, block, report, and DM me. We will document and act. This space is a professional, boundaried container. Respect it or leave.
I also know that most people on Skool are different. You’re here to grow, to exchange ideas, to support each other, not to cross boundaries. That’s why I chose this platform, I believe in creating a space where conversations are real, respectful, and transformative.
And I’m grateful to everyone who’s part of that. ❤️
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This is why I stopped working with men — and why
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