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Completely unexpected

Sometimes it is the people who see you every day that notice when you are off before you truly admit it to yourself. I was blown away yesterday when someone I see every day but am not super close to touched my arm and with such sincerity to and kindness asked me if I was okay. Most times I would smile and say of course and never share my feelings. Yesterday, for whatever reason and I am sure to this persons surprise I started to cry. She whisked me into a private room and just held my hand and listened. Most people in your life listen but they can have a variety of their own emotions at play when they hear your pain. She had none of those attachments and could just listen. At the end of our talk I felt like I had gained a true friend and have some great advice from someone who has no stake in any of the choices I make moving forward. I have a prayer warrior and a future shoulder to cry on. Today, my thank you card was to her. If you notice a huge change in someone around you, check on them. The world is tough right now and so many people are struggling with so many things. Your kindness and time can make all the difference to someone teetering on the edge. If you are struggling, there are people out there who are ready to listen. You don’t have to pretend everything is perfect all the time. Sometimes, your vulnerability could open up someone else to reach out and be vulnerable at just the right moment.

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