I am love and joy I wake up each day excited to experience life as the masculine man I am I am in love with Eleanor Jane Smee, we are amazing parents. I am grateful for our beautiful son I am grateful for the health of me and those who I love I am grateful for all the love and joy I experience and the challenges which life presents to me I am a powerful confident leader and can create anything I am a Stoic and a Sage and I share my wisdom with all who desire it. I am a success. I am living in total abundance. I am loving service and a master listener. I am constantly creating with my thoughts, my words and my actions. I am a world class coach and can help anyone achieve anything. I am an athlete and have exceptional strength and endurance This is who I am being and I exist to serve. And my parents named me Ben

You’re not here to “fix” yourself. You’re here to upgrade the system. Recode your mind — and the results follow.

Hi everyone I’m Lotty after always putting the people I love first in my life I’ve decided to focus on learning to be me. Probably my hardest lesson and as I’m now in my 61st year some would say it’s about time! I hope being part of this group will help me but also that I can help others too. How can I help you? X