K… I'm updating this…
because I'm not the same woman who wrote it the first time… not even slightly…
and if you're gonna be in my world… actually IN it… not just lurking like a little borasaurus in the bushes…
you need the real version of me…
not the polished up, bow tied nicely, sounds like she's got her sh*t together version…
that version's boring and frankly she can do one. Totes.
Here's something I've only just let myself fully say out loud…(ooofff when the dots connected)
I've been doing the same work my entire life.
Same work. Different rooms.
Dance studio… getting people out of their heads and into their bodies… stop overthinking… FEEL it… own the space… be seen… woop…
Yoga… helping people slow the noise down… reconnect to themselves… trust what was already sitting inside them…
And now… business…
Literally. The. Same. Thing.
If I ever… 😂
Because the people I work with aren't stuck because they don't have anything to say…
they're stuck because the way they're saying it isn't landing yet.
That's it.
That's the whole problem I've been solving my entire life just in different shoes.
Epic AF when you finally clock it tbf.
And I know what that feels like from the inside… properly know it…
I spent years being quiet… timid as a mouse (so they say)… second guessing every single thing that came out of my mouth… watering myself down so much I didn't even know what my actual voice sounded like anymore…
trying not to be too much…
trying to fit…
trying to make myself smaller so everyone else felt comfortable…
Oh my dog… the amount of energy that took…
It took me nearly HALF A CENTURY… half a bloody century… to go…
nah.
Done.
DONE done.
And that wasn't pretty… losing people… outgrowing things… sitting with the discomfort of becoming someone people hadn't seen before… including me…
but on the other side of all of that?
I finally sound like myself, phew…
And I will never… EVER… go back to shrinking that. Not for anyone. Not even a tiny bit. Totes done with that era.
I'm VEGAN. I speak up about animal exploitation. Every. Single. Time. Because they don't have a voice and I do… and that is never going to be up for debate in my world… not even a little bit… not today… not ever… she said what she said.
That's not a quirk. That's my spine.
Same spine I bring into everything I do.
So. The people I actually work with.
Not beginners.
Not the "I don't know what to do" crew…
The ones already IN it… already posting… already showing up… already have offers… already invested in themselves… already doing the thing…
and something still isn't clicking and it is DOING THEIR HEAD IN.
Because from the outside they're doing everything right…
but the results don't match the effort and they're sat there like…
what the actual fck…
Sound familiar? 👀
There's a path that's supposed to go…
Content → Conversation → Clients → CHA-CHING
And most people… most really good, really capable, epic AF people… are stuck at the very first step.
Posting into what feels like an absolute void.
Refreshing like… hello?? anyone?? 😭
And here's the thing…
it is not the thing everyone says it is.
It's not about posting more.
It's not another strategy.
It's not Mercury bloody retrograde. (Trevor I swear to god…)
It's the message.
YOUR message…
The one that's still slightly softened… slightly filtered… still shaped for the room instead of coming from the actual bones of who you are…
You're saying almost the thing… instead of THE thing…
and people can FEEL that gap… even when they can't name it…
even when they're liking your stuff and saying lovely things and still not buying…
you're softening where you should be sharp… holding back where you should be going ALL in… and it's costing you every single effin’ time.
THAT'S the bit.
That tiny, frustrating, so-close-but-not-quite gap.
Holding. The. Whole. Thing. Up.
And I know because the epic humans I work with say things like…
"I don't get it… I'm doing everything I'm meant to do…"
"It sounds so much better in my head."
"This doesn't even sound like me anymore."
"People love my stuff… so why is nobody actually buying??"
Yeah.
OMD… THAT feeling right there.
That's exactly the thing I fix.
I pull out what's actually in you…
the real version… the one that's been sitting just underneath every post you've half written and gone… nearly… but not quite…
and I get it OUT of you…
clearly… powerfully… in a way that is so undeniably YOU that the right people read it and go…
"fck… it's like she's inside my actual head…"
And then they buy.
Not because you got salesy.
Not because you followed some borasaurus template.
Because your message finally landed like it was always supposed to. Woop.
I help people who have something powerful to say… actually say it in a way that gets them seen, trusted, and paid.
That's the whole job. Obvs there's more to it… but that's the beating heart of it.
This is what we do inside MYM (Magnetise Your Message) and Backroom…
Find the message. Sharpen the voice. Make the offer land.
Build your actual spine so you stop auditioning for rooms that were never built for you…
and start showing up like someone people feel… remember… and throw their money at. 😂
No waiting for perfect. No next week energy. No hiding behind "I just need to tweak it a bit more" nonsense. Totes none of that.
Movement. Always movement. Woop woop.
I'm in Bali… built a life I actually love BIG TIME… my home, my space, my rescue girl Nami who is an absolute fluffy bum sometime grump bum and I would literally die for her even when she's barking her cute fluffy arse off at a lizard while mummy is on a call with a client about to rake in heaps of mula 😂…
jungle mornings… deep convos often with myself teehee… obsessing endlessly over how humans communicate and why so many of us are SO much more powerful than we're letting ourselves be…
doing this work every single day with epic humans who are done playing small with their voice.
Living my best borasaurus-free life tbf. 😂
This isn't for everyone… obvs…
If you're just starting out… not yet… not yet.
If you'd rather keep doing the same thing and hoping something magically shifts… off you pop… no hard feelings… genuinely… byeeee 👋
But if you're reading this and something in your chest just went…
oh.
oh fck.
that's exactly what's happening…
Then you already know.
DM me. Links in comments. Let's fix the actual thing.
It's not that you don't have something to say. It's that the way you're saying it isn't landing yet. That's what we fix.
Mwah Love Mimi + Nami x x x