Notes of Sign of low alpha male lecture
🔹 Signs of a Low-Alpha / Weak Mindset
  • Constantly seeking approval: “Kaisa lag raha hai?”, “Kahan jana chahiye?”
  • Fear of rejection (hesitating to speak, act, or lead)
  • No clear direction in life
  • Overthinking instead of taking action
  • Poor eye contact, shaky voice, unclear speech
  • Saying “yes” to everyone, weak boundaries
  • Oversharing and over-justifying yourself
  • Getting influenced by people just because they are senior or in a higher position
  • Comparing yourself with others; jealousy
  • Getting emotionally attached too quickly
  • Being an attention seeker
  • Anger, impulsive reactions, lack of calmness
🔹 Core Mindset Principles
  • Don’t seek validation from everyone
  • No one can change your opinion unless they give better logic/reasons
  • Stop focusing on what others are doing
  • Remove “people’s opinions ka kachra” from your mind
  • Forgive people (mentally free yourself)(maf karo logo ko – for your own peace)
🔹 Action & Growth Philosophy
  • Take action on time — don’t overthink
  • Learn through doing, not just thinking
  • Make mistakes → gain insights → grow
  • Instead of repeating mistakes, learn from elders’ experiences
  • Be proactive; don’t wait for things to happen
  • Work at your own pace, not under pressure of others
  • Don’t withdraw yourself when facing confident people
  • Lead yourself first, then lead others
🔹 Communication & Presence
  • Speak slowly, calmly, and clearly
  • Avoid fillers like “aaa…”
  • Improve voice quality (no shaky or weak tone)
  • Speak only when needed
  • Maintain good eye contact
  • Be firm but respectful
🔹 Physical & Lifestyle Discipline
  • Good posture and confident walk
  • Exercise regularly
  • Maintain hygiene
  • Eat well (avoid heavy meals before sleep)
  • Proper sleep routine
  • Discipline with no exceptions
🔹 Emotional & Behavioral Control
  • No unnecessary anger
  • Stay calm while solving problems
  • Don’t create attention artificially
  • Control emotions, especially attachment
  • Avoid feminine energy traits (emotional instability, dependency)
  • Be grounded, composed, and self-reliant
🔹 Money & Confidence
  • Control your money
  • Focus on earning
  • Financial discipline builds confidence
  • Long-term vision: $1 million goal, InshaAllah
🔹 Self-Programming (Apne aap ko “daana dalna”)
  • Train your mind with cause-effect thinking:
  • Build internal motivation instead of external approval
🔹 Identity Shift
  • Don’t aim to be an Alpha Male
  • Aim to be a Sigma Male
3
2 comments
Asjad Abrar
4
Notes of Sign of low alpha male lecture
powered by
Make $1k-$10k in 30 days
skool.com/make-1k-5k-in-30-days-8449
Media Valley School is the fastest way to hit $1K/month with freelancing or agency work. Guaranteed.
Land your first $1K month in 30 days
Build your own community
Bring people together around your passion and get paid.
Powered by