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NOTES ➜ Don't Blame Others By Haroon Khalil
𝟏. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 🧠
Often, when someone tries to teach us something, we become defensive or ignorant, so the message doesn’t truly sink in..
When advice comes from a Higher Authority (parents, teachers, or divine sources), start acting on it even if you don’t fully understand it yet. The why becomes clear after you see the results.
𝟐. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐐𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐜 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐞𝐭 📖
a powerful ayah (Prophet Adam’s prayer):
“اے ہمارے رب! ہم نے اپنی جانوں پر ظلم کیا، اور اگر تو نے ہمیں معاف نہ کیا اور ہم پر رحم نہ فرمایا تو ہم ضرور نقصان اٹھانے والوں میں سے ہو جائیں گے۔”
Meaning: True growth begins when we accept that we have wronged ourselves, instead of blaming the world.
𝟑. 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐥𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐦𝐞 🚫
People blame their boss for job loss, their spouse for relationship problems, or others for accidents.
Blaming others makes you powerless. You cannot change people but you can change yourself.
𝟒. 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 “𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲” 🔁
In every negative situation, ask: What was my role in this?
Even if the other person was wrong, question why you were there, why you chose them, or what you overlooked.
: This mindset helps you clearly see what needs improvement in your business, relationships, and habits.
𝟓. 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐏𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐬 🔄
If you don’t take responsibility, the same mistakes repeat with different people and in different situations.
Once you focus on your part of the mistake, the cycle breaks.
𝟔. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐔𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭 🌱
This mindset leads to:
- Better money-making skills by fixing real flaws in your work
- Mental peace by letting go of blame and resentment
- Personal growth in health, mindset, and overall lifestyle.
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NOTES ➜ Don't Blame Others By Haroon Khalil
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