Mar 11 • General discussion
Introduction
Heyy again My name is Rakhshanda Amanat. I am 23 years old living in Lahore Pakistan and I graduated in 2024.
A few days ago I watched Sir Haroon's videos, and they gave me hope again. That’s why I joined this community with a positive mindset, believing this could be the place where I finally learn the right skills and direction.
To be honest, I carry a lot of regret. I studied a degree that was never really my choice. My interest was in fashion design, but I sacrificed my career choice because my mother wanted something else. The painful part is that even after doing that, my family is still not satisfied.
I live in small village , thats why opportunities are very limited. I even worked at a school for a 20k salary, but the work was exhausting and I realized I can’t spend my life doing jobs that have no growth.
During my hostel life, I tried many things to change my situation. I experimented with content creation, YouTube, freelancing, and even created gigs and projects on Fiverr. I kept trying different paths, but I slowly realized something important — maybe I lacked f the proper education, guidance, and mentorship to do things the right way.
At home there is also a lot of pressure of marriage my mom wants me and my sister to get married . My father believes online opportunities are scams and often discourages me. Because my brother supports the household financially, there is strong male dominance in my home, and sometimes it feels like my choices don’t matter. My sister also works in a school, with 13k salary somthing like after spending alot of money at least we don't deserve is type ki jobs there is no growth so my sister so she gets more respect, while I often face criticism because I am still unemployed.
But these experiences also made me realize something very clearly: career choice and life partner choice are two of the biggest decisions in life.
I am here because I genuinely want to change my life. My goal is to become financially independent in the next five years. I want to build real skills, earn with dignity, and stand on my own feet. I don’t want to marry someone just to escape my problems. I want to become confident enough to choose my own future.
In the next five years, I see myself as an independent woman with her own home, her own car, and most importantly the confidence to make the biggest decisions in her life.
And honestly, I want to change my life starting this year.
Wish me a good luck
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