Take Ownership - Don't blame others
-true that kabhi kabhi kuch chezain smj nahi aatin unless koi higher authority ek different tariqe se kuch smjhae.
-Takes advice and remember the advice of higher authorities (Quran, Hadees, elders, siblings) and try to see from a different view.
-Koi cheez smjhte smjhte itna late na hojao ke uska meaning hi na rahe, try to use first bullet point whenever you feel stuck.
-"rabbana zalamna asfusana" this ayat can change your business, life and thinking.
-try to positively blaming yourself instead of others for your life decisions, jitna jaldi life mai ye blame game ka burden gira doge utna lighter way mai kamyabi se agey barhoge.
-journal or think about the events and faults of others once, but then sirf apni ghaltion pe focus aur khud ko improve krne ki koshsh.