I have been working hard on letting go of control…. I’ve always been a people pleaser and had a father that was a perfectionist so I always looked for peoples approval and was always really tough on myself… I’m working on that, and God’s word is a big help. Who else is trying to let go of control?? In what ways are you able o do that? (PS my father is a very different person now and we have a wonderful relationship… but it was still programmed in me to expect the best of myself and everyone else… to a fault…)