Emma, Helen is absolutely correct. At this time, he is probably not going to hear you - he will hear what the Liar wants him to hear. Sometimes the best and most loving thing we can do is be the Bible they read; meaning, continue to love, read and serve God, but don’t push. Allow God to work through your deeds. I used to tell my kids that just because something was true, that it wasn’t always beneficial. When we speak the truth in love, sometimes people don’t want truth or love. Our human nature is very fickle. Add satan’s misdeeds and confusion to the mix and it usually frustrates more. Love your husband and support him with your silent offered prayers and actions. Remember Gal 6:9: “don’t grow weary of doing good for in time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Be patient. Pray always. God is working things out as they should be. Bless you!