Do you see them for what they are or what they do or see ourselves in them?
This might be complicated to explain but I'll try
I've been grasping at straws with this dilemma. And I don't think hating someone is that bad actually. I mean, we all do have someone we hate , don't we? And it is not as if it is a huge calamity or that my life is over because of this. But I have to see this person often and that sucks because I cannot see eye-to-eye with this person. Their beliefs, values etc .. is not what I would agree with. That's not to say that I believe this person is that hateful if I look at it in 3rd pov. 😅 just not pleasant to be around with. The vibes ain't vibing. There is something not aligned here.
Sooooo, what y'all think about it?
Should I avoid this person whenever they come around? Should I see myself in this person and accept that maybe the part of what I hate is what I hate about myself? Or maybe what I hate is a rabbit hole into other aspects of life I want?
See beyond who they are and what they do to see a possibility of how I can un-hate them? 😂
Feel free to share your thoughts,ideas or meditation or another ways I can get past this.