I Polled Everyone In Here (Here's What You Said) ๐งก
16/55 ppl replied almost immediately; 29% response rate is pretty good imo :) The other ppl may be busy or just haven't seen it yet or just don't really care - that's alright I was expecting only a 20% response rate so that's already better than I thought it would be. I asked what was more relevant: confidence in offer; outreach; or content Almost everyone said 1 and 2 The best advice I got was from @Ellie Hayes she told me I have a tendency to come in with too much intensity and I should try to connect emotionally / support first; then gently raise my energy level to match what ppl are comfortable with Rather than coming in with chaos bolts and electrocuting the entire group lol Alright I'm listening. I'm gonna switch to orange for a while (phone case and sheets). That's the color of emotional support to me. I will try to MATCH the vibe of my group and gradually raise the energy level to a comfortable/sustainable level. I do have a tendency to wanna blitz to the abso - fuckin - lute maximum but I'll just put that energy into my outreach. Ellie is right: a good coach shows you support. Gentle when you need to be. Stimulating when that's desirable. @Jessica Jarvis and @Cristal Vancarson were the most interested in brainstorming in a thread. What are you guys focusing on lately? @Katinka van Kan and @Harold Faulkner were the most open to mastermind calls this week :) Everyone else prob just has other things going on and it doesn't seem like high ticket coaching is really a huge PRIORITY right now. Life happens. Still figuring things out. Putting all the puzzle pieces together. Others have said their offer is pretty solid but dming their community may feel a bit weird or they are not exactly wanting to fully activate their community. I think the way you feel about your dms is the way you feel when other leaders dm you. Can be easy to have a negative/avoidant feeling towards dms.