You know, I'm always heard.The freshness is the hardest step in most cases , that's pretty much true. But I'm dealing with something\nRight now , where the fresh that may not be the hardest. And I'm not talking about\nPlanning or seeing if it will work. I'm talking about the hardest of this process is having to do it without telling someone because you know what their reaction will be , what once you tell them. And because of your own past trauma , you're not ready to tell them yet. But if all the pieces follow into place , it will all happen , super quick , and you have tell them.