🥰 I choose me. · hoomans.

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🥰 I choose me.

Yesterday, after a question in the tribe, I was brought to tears for hours realizing that I have been saying “no” to myself for years, helping others (anyone really) just because I can.

My early childhood programming was that if I don’t help, I am a bad person.

That’s not true.

Sometimes people don’t have your best interest in mind and sometimes they don’t care for you. Sometimes you have fake friends and you don’t realize it… especially if you are programmed to just help help help all the time!

So, up until yesterday I used to tell my younger self “shut up Ro and just don’t”…. Not listening to what Ro wants.

Realizing how many times I have done that, made me feel sick in my stomach.

Example: I have this one “friend” that only takes takes takes and demands demands demands…

She is first to hit me up when I play a bigger show - gets VIP treatment, backstage passes and free drinks… and shows up late for my set and sometimes misses it!

Borrows money with promises that she will pay back - never happens.

Promises - never mind… always!!!

I believe I outgrew this friendship and all of them fake ones!!

No more!

Last night I acquired my own filter!!!

I am pushing my own boundaries by setting boundaries.

How often do you bend over backwards for others that do not deserve it?

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