Hi my name is Kylie and I recently got engaged. Immediately after we began wedding planning- chaos and drama ensued. Enough to a point where I am so depressed and exhausted that I have called the event off- leaving my future husband and his family devastated as well. I am learning through therapy my mom is a narcissist and my dad has been her enabler my entire life. My eyes have just opened and I feel like I am seeing things through an entirely different lens. Per my therapist it's because I have essentially been brain washed my entire life. I am so devestated and hurt by the things my mom has recently said to me I can't fathom ever forgiving her or having a healthy relationship with her, and I'm looking for any hope I can