My mother drives me nuts. I'm sad that I can't even feel love for her anymore. I can't stand her. I think she feels the same way about me. Even though I'm not the one who's lied to others to turn them against me, made up stories to get me in trouble, promised to treat me better and only did for a short time before regressing back to being an entitled, demanding, emotionally neglectful, self absorbed demon woman. She's a narcissist, but the kind who calls anyone who disagrees with her a narcissist. Anytime I share my thoughts, perspectives, beliefs, and it's different from hers then I'm somehow the demon! Like the flip of a switch and I'm her worst enemy out to ruin her life as if I'm not even her daughter! Yet she acts like she cares so much and doesn't understand why I won't talk to her anymore. When the only reason she ever talks to me is to get me to do what she wants! I'm sick of it, I'm sick of her, I'm sick of feeling like I don't matter as a person of my own. Like I'm just an extension of her. Like I can't even talk about it online with others who get it without it somehow coming back around to ruin my life or my little brothers life who still has to live with her.

Estrangement is such a weird thing, loaded with tons of question marks. And not getting answers A to your questions can you up all night. Sometimes even days. This leads us to today’s exercise👇 ✔️If you’re an estranged adult daughter, share one piece of advice for estranged moms in here that they need to hear today. ✔️And if you’re an estranged mom, ask adult daughters one question that you’re dying to know. Let’s help each other out🫂

Please comment on this post with either “Mom” or “Daughter” Mom = I’m here as a mom trying to heal my relationship with my daughter. Daughter = I’m here as a daughter and want a better relationship with my mom. For future content purposes for you all🫶

Hi and welcome! This is your safe space to connect with other mothers and daughters working to heal and rebuild their relationships. Let’s start by getting to know each other! THIS STEP IS MANDATORY❤️‍🩹 Comment below and share: 1️⃣ Your name and where you’re from. 2️⃣ Your current relationship status with your mom/daughter (e.g., “haven’t spoken in years,” “just starting to reconnect”). 3️⃣ One thing you hope to gain from this community. 💞 Bonus: Comment on at least two other introductions to show your support and start connecting with others. This space is all about finding strength in each other’s stories. ✨ Next Step: Check out the Kickstarter Course in the "Classroom" to get started on your healing journey. It’s packed with tools and insights to help you take that first step toward reconnection. This is your space to grow, learn, and connect. We’re so glad you’re here. 💞