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1. They Feel Misunderstood, Not Unloved. Estranged daughters may distance themselves not out of hatred or a lack of love but because they feel their emotions, experiences, or choices aren’t understood or validated. 2. They Struggle With Guilt. Many estranged daughters experience guilt, shame, or sadness over the distance in their relationship with their mother. While they may have chosen to step away for self-preservation or healing, it doesn’t mean the decision was easy or that they don’t miss aspects of the bond. 3. Boundaries Reflect Pain, Not Rejection. When a daughter sets boundaries or withdraws, it’s frequently a reflection of unresolved hurt or unmet emotional needs rather than a rejection of the mother as a person. They might struggle with how to communicate their pain without fear of judgment, leading them to shut down instead. Understanding these dynamics can help mothers approach their daughters with greater compassion and openness, creating a foundation for meaningful reconnection. Comment down below if this makes sense or if you have any questions💓

Hi and welcome! This is your safe space to connect with other mothers and daughters working to heal and rebuild their relationships. Let’s start by getting to know each other! THIS STEP IS MANDATORY❤️‍🩹 Comment below and share: 1️⃣ Your name and where you’re from. 2️⃣ Your current relationship status with your mom/daughter (e.g., “haven’t spoken in years,” “just starting to reconnect”). 3️⃣ One thing you hope to gain from this community. 💞 Bonus: Comment on at least two other introductions to show your support and start connecting with others. This space is all about finding strength in each other’s stories. ✨ Next Step: Check out the Kickstarter Course in the "Classroom" to get started on your healing journey. It’s packed with tools and insights to help you take that first step toward reconnection. This is your space to grow, learn, and connect. We’re so glad you’re here. 💞

Hi!👋 I’m Julie and I’m from southern California. My 23 year old daughter estranged herself from me in May 2023. She has struggled with mental health issues since she was 14 (multiple hospitalizations). She has not been compliant with meds / therapy since she turned 18. She has self medicated with THC. She has also been heavily influenced by peers. She refuses to speak with me about anything. I have begged her to do therapy together … something to offer me any speck of insight. Over the past 1.5 years, I have continued working on myself (the only thing I can control). I have been forced to “let go.” I have been angry, sad, frustrated …. I have respected the “space” my daughter has asked for and felt she needed. I have tried to reach out a few times - letting her know that without any questions or judgement, I’m still here - ready and waiting for her … when she is ready. Of course I hope and pray that there will be a day that she is ready … but I’ve also tried hard to embrace the possibility that she might never be ready. I used to feel that I needed to understand what went wrong between us … but I’ve come to terms that I’m ok if that understanding doesn’t happen. The relationship and moving forward is more important to me. For now, I’d just like some sort of communication and connection on her terms … whatever will make her feel safe. Hoping to connect with … and support/encourage others here. There is learning and hope in community. This has been a journey that has broken me to my core. I know God uses those broken places to bless others.

Hi my name is Kylie and I recently got engaged. Immediately after we began wedding planning- chaos and drama ensued. Enough to a point where I am so depressed and exhausted that I have called the event off- leaving my future husband and his family devastated as well. I am learning through therapy my mom is a narcissist and my dad has been her enabler my entire life. My eyes have just opened and I feel like I am seeing things through an entirely different lens. Per my therapist it's because I have essentially been brain washed my entire life. I am so devestated and hurt by the things my mom has recently said to me I can't fathom ever forgiving her or having a healthy relationship with her, and I'm looking for any hope I can