A weak man will always choose the woman who doesn't challenge him.
The real woman who walks into relationships brings her standards, her vision, her bank account, her boundaries, her history of doing the hard work on herself, and her capacity to transform purpose into action.
He thought he wanted it, posted about it, imagining having a strong, independent woman, but the moment she actually showed up, it required him to match her energy, and instead, he shrank, sabotaged, and picked a woman where no work is needed.
He will say it's about chemistry, but it's actually about comfort.
You need to realize it's never about you.
It was about him...
The fact is, the woman he chose is a woman who doesn't require him to evolve.
She lets him stay still, and stillness is what a weak man chooses every single time over a woman who will make him a better man.
The man that God builds for you is a man who looks at everything you bring, and he decides he wants to grow into being worthy of it.
That's the only kind of man you should be available to anymore.