How do you deal with a family member who’s emotionally abusive, user, narcissistic and manipulative? I’ve distanced myself from them but till this day they have to throw a comment or transfer their dark and evil energy to me. They don’t even have to say anything it just happens. I know Aaron said we’re a container but this persons energy is so strong like I’m not even thinking and I just feel like my heart clenches and the air around me dirty and when I look out I see them standing somewhere close with the most dark energy, fully aware that I’m there. They act like an angel infront of other family members so when I try to defend myself they just shut me down and protect her. It’s really draining. I was so loving to that person but they’ve been having evil intentions towards me my whole life and abused me whenever I stood up for myself both emotionally and physically. I’m really trying but I need something stronger than patience..