The hardest thing for our ego to do is to let go of control. The ego is all about control and fear. It is a stubborn identity. It will refuse to surrender. This is why suffering and crisis are essential. It must be shocked into submission. This is the only way to reclaim our empowerment. All doubt must be removed as to our true identity. We must be reborn consciously.

An evolving consciousness does not judge anything or anyone. Judgement restricts an expansion of universal consciousness. It limits the freedom to learn and explore. Like AI he universe learns through the expansion of our consciousness and does not judge. Only our ego seeks revenge through duality.

Behind all desire is the wish to be whole and empowered again. Its the motive behind wealth, power, and fame. By itself our desire does not have the power to do that. It is too self interested and afraid. It hides its weakness behind a desire to control. It builds walls of self denial and deception. Alone desire creates a hell all of its own making. It is the empty hunger of desire . That starves the life right out of us. Life only grows when their is no desire. It can only blossom if we surrender it.

Most men will see a woman as a means to satisfy their lust and desire. This is the nature of their ego love. But they never see into the woman or know her thoughts and feelings. The male ego is too selfish and controlling. It wants to possess and manipulate. It is a one sided love of their imagination. Two hearts can never meet as one. A woman will want to take a man deep into her so that he can heal. If she is wise. But most men will choose to hold onto their fear. Ever wondering why love did not grow. At the end of their life they may have achieved much. But their heart will feel alone with no one to share it with.