This morning, I was having a profound conversation with a group of guys… the discussion is always lively and full of positive energy! It has a rhythm of its own and when things need to get serious they get serious in a hurry. What came from that conversation: We all have a past. A past complete with good and bad memories. Some even unbearably painful. BUT, those experiences don’t have to define who we are today. We have the choice to use those memories in two ways: Impact positive changes in our own lives and use those lessons to help others avoid the same circumstances OR Rinse and repeat those in our own mind over and over until they consume our being and convince us we are a victim of circumstance. I choose door number one