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The D.A.D. Strong Standard (Read This Like You Mean It)
Being a dad is not an excuse to give up on your body. And it’s not a reason to destroy yourself trying to “get it back.” D.A.D. Strong exists because fathers need a standard that respects strength + responsibility… not “dad bod cope” or “six-week psycho mode.” Strength Is a Responsibility Strength isn’t abs. Strength is capacity. It’s: - energy left after work - the ability to play, lift, carry, and protect - resilience when life gets stressful (because it will) A D.A.D. Strong father trains for function and leadership, not vanity. “Dad Bod” Isn’t the End of the Story Empathy should never become permission to quit. Yes, life is harder now. Yes, time is limited. Yes, progress is slower. Cool. We adjust the plan — we don’t lower the standard. We Don’t Do Extremes No starving. No punishing workouts. No “I’ll suffer for 42 days then rebound for 6 months.” We do what works in real life: Consistency > Intensity Structure > Motivation Sustainability > Speed Always. We Train With Intention Every session has a purpose. We prioritize: - strength that carries into daily life - joints that still work when your kids are teenagers (and still want to wrestle) - recovery like it actually matters Missed workouts don’t define you. Quitting does. We Eat Like Adults (Not Bodybuilders) We don’t moralize food. We don’t fear carbs. We don’t turn family dinner into a spreadsheet and a meltdown. We eat for: - fat loss that sticks - energy that lasts - habits you can repeat for years Perfection isn’t required. Consistency is. We Play the Long Game We measure success in months and years, not “why didn’t I lose 7 pounds since Tuesday.” Dads lose fat slower sometimes. That’s normal. Stress and sleep matter. Progress is rarely linear. We don’t panic. We adjust and move forward. We Lead By Example (Not Obsession) Your kids don’t need you shredded. They need you to model: - discipline without self-punishment - balance without excuses - confidence without ego
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Quick one for the dads in here - something I’ve been seeing a lot lately, and maybe it’ll help someone.
Quick one for the dads in here - something I’ve been seeing a lot lately, and maybe it’ll help someone. Men always talk about wanting to “get fitter,” “lose the belly,” or “sort themselves out”…but when you’re a dad, it’s not really about a six pack. it’s about having the energy to play with your kids without feeling wrecked,being able to handle stress without snapping,and setting the example you want your kids to follow one day. Over the last few years, something clicked for me:It’s much easier to stay consistent when you stop trying to train like your 20-year-old, free-time version of yourself…and start training like a dad with limited time, responsibilities, and a real life. Here are the 3 things that made the biggest difference for me: 1️⃣ Keep it simple - full body 3x per week beats any “bro split.”Short, efficient sessions with the main movements (push, pull, squat, hinge, carry).You stay stronger, fitter, and more consistent with less time. 2️⃣ Protein & steps are the dad cheat codes.If you do nothing else…eat protein with each meal and hit 7-10k steps a day. Energy goes up, hunger goes down, stress improves. 3️⃣ Don’t chase motivation. Build habits that don’t rely on it. Kids get sick. Work gets busy. Sleep gets broken.Motivation disappears fast - habits keep you moving.Even 15 minutes counts. If this helps even one dad here get moving again, class.We’re all trying to be better for our families, and sometimes the smallest changes make the biggest impact. Curious - what’s the one thing you struggle with most when it comes to staying consistent as a dad?Drop it below… might help someone else reading too.
Emotional Eating and Why it Happens (a bit long)
Today I wanted to post an email I sent out to my email subscribers, that I thought some here may find useful. Sorry for the length, I had a lot to say. It’s been one of those days. Work was a joke, your boss was on one, you snapped at your partner, the house looks like a toy store exploded… Next thing you know, you’re standing in the kitchen, half-present, half-zoned out, looking for a little relief in a bag of chips. You’re not actually hungry. You’re looking for a timeout from your own life. That’s emotional eating. Totally common. Totally human. But if you’re trying to lose fat, feel better, and stop starting over every Monday…it’s also one of the main anchors holding you in place. Today I want to walk you through three things: 1. Why emotional eating actually happens 2. How to tell physical hunger from emotional hunger 3. What to do instead (without giving up food forever or becoming a monk) Why emotional eating happens (you’re not broken) Your brain is not a villain. It’s just efficient. At some point it learned: “When I feel stressed / overwhelmed / lonely / bored…eating something tasty = instant relief.” Food gives you: - A hit of dopamine (feel-good chemical) - A distraction from whatever feels heavy - A sense of control (“I can’t fix my day, but I can eat this”) So the next time your day goes sideways, your brain runs that same play: Bad day > Kitchen > Snack > Tiny relief > Repeat. The problem? That 5–10 minutes of relief keeps turning into: - Extra 300–800 calories - Sluggish sleep - Waking up frustrated and saying, “What is wrong with me?” Answer: nothing is “wrong” with you. You’re just using food as your primary coping tool…and that tool has side effects when you’re already carrying more weight than you want. Physical vs emotional hunger (super simple cheat sheet) Here’s a stupid-simple way to tell which one you’re dealing with. Physical hunger: - Comes on gradually - You could eat a real meal (protein, carbs, fats) - You can usually wait 20–30 minutes - You feel it in your stomach - After you eat a normal meal, you feel satisfied (not guilty)
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The Day-After Reset (Thanksgiving Edition)
Enjoyed Thanksgiving? Same. Second plate, bonus dessert, zero shame.Also: it was one day. What matters is today. Your 24-Hour Reset (do these 5) - Hydrate hard: 80 - 120 oz water, minimum - Back to baseline meals: no “makeup” starvation or binges - 10–30 min walk: outside if possible - Protein target: aim for 0.7 - 1.0g per lb goal bodyweight - Lights out on time: 7 - 9 hours tonight No self-punishment. No “I’ll start over Monday.” Just move on. Mini 24 Hour Challenge: “Clean Slate 24” -- Check off all five today. Comment “IN” and post your completion pic (water bottle, step count, dinner plate, whatever). I’ll reply with a quick form check or tip. Why this works: Consistency beats compensation. Getting back to your normal routine (hydration, circadian rhythm, protein intake, movement) stabilizes hunger, mood, and water retention, fast. Poll: What do you need most today? A) Structure (daily checklist & plan) B) Accountability (coach eyes & check-ins) C) Simplicity (no overthinking, just do this) D) All of the above If you don’t have a comeback plan for weekends and holidays, that’s exactly what we build in Pyramid of Success Mentorship - habits, systems, and structure that keep you moving forward. Holiday offer: $250 OFF enrollment for a limited time. Comment “RESET” and I’ll DM details, or message me directly. You enjoyed yesterday - guilt free. Today we execute. Let’s go. – Theron
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Real fitness = capability (not filters)
Somewhere along the way, fitness lost the plot. Scroll for five minutes and it’s abs, “snatched” waists, and arbitrary bench “standards.” Cool for clicks. Useless for real life. Here’s the truth: fitness is your ability to live well—physically and mentally. Not a highlight reel. Not a 30-day shred. Capability. What that looks like in the wild: - Playing with your kids after a long day instead of tapping out on the couch. - Getting off the floor without the dramatic dad-groan. - Having energy left to give your partner real attention. - Doing more of what you love—snowboarding in my world. - Holding it together when life swings back. That’s fitness too. Train for ability and the look takes care of itself. Strong, capable, resilient beats “shredded but smoked” every day of the week. This month’s focus: build capability. Pick ONE: 1. One-trip grocery carry (farmer’s carry practice, 2–3x/week) 2. 10-minute post-work kid play or walk, daily 3. Floor get-up without hands, 5 reps/day Which capability are you choosing for the next 30 days—and why? Be specific. What’s your #1 reason for training right now? - Energy after work - Play with my kids pain-free - Confidence in and out of clothes - Be stronger for my sport/hobby - Fewer aches and better joints - Other (comment below) Remember: fitness should make your life better—relationships, energy, presence, confidence. Build the man who can do more. The mirror will catch up.
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