โGosh, Jes, why you gotta be so aggressive?!?โ Wait. Hold on.
Fucking around is actually the key success but thereโs some things that you just donโt fuck with.
โPlaying with my money is like playing with my emotions.โ - Big Worm, Friday
โQuit playing games with my heart.โ - Backstreet Boys
Did you get it?!? Donโt play with peopleโs money, emotions or heart. Thatโs when โfinding outโ gets ugly.
BUT when you fuck around AND care about people, the whole world decides to bless you! ๐ค๐๐๏ธ
Doors open. Money flows. Friends want to spend time with you!!!
What if you donโt want to be around people? What if you dream of a cabin in the woods by yourself?
This planet is a funny place and a lot of times, โfunnyโ hurts.
Weโve fucked around and gotten our hearts broken, businesses destroyed, products stolen, and other people believed the asshats that caused the chaos.
All pain, hurt, and trauma comes through other people.
On the flip side, healing, joy, freedom and money comes through other people.
When we place barriers, pay walls, and resistance around ourselves, itโs more difficult for ANYTHING to come through.
Sure, you wonโt get hurt as much, but youโre also not going to make as much money or have as many friends or take as many trips.
When we guard ourselves, we block blessings and we forget the lessons that we learned in the hard times.
Those lessons are there to teach us how to not jump in the same bucket of shit again.
If you are noticing patterns in your life, cycles that keep repeating themselves. Thatโs just an indicator that you need to learn a lesson.
As you heal from the lessons, your people picker starts picking better peckers!
Moral of the story, build trust with yourself and get out there and fuck around!
You just might find out what a blessing you are to yourself in the world!