Ola! 😊
I recently had tea with some friends. Our conversation organically evolved to understanding the finer stokes of Portuguese culture.
Questions like:
KINDNESS
- How do you reciprocate with Portuguese friends for the kindness shown?
- Do you reciprocate? Some were told you don't. My daughter was told you come in to help when it is needed.
FRIENDSHIP
- Are there cultural codes and expectations that guide friendships with Portuguese friends?
POOR SERVICE
- Are there methods, other than the red book, to express dissatisfaction with poor service?
BEING A GUEST
- What is a culturally appropriate gift to take?
- Is taking wine offensive to the host? One friend was told it is!
- Is there a norm on the type and size of gift that would mean not outshing the host?
DIFFERENCES
- Are there differences in cultural expressions (eg. around the above questions) in Portugal?
I quickly realized I need much, much more diving in to the beautiful Portuguese culture I live in and much, much more participation with Portuguese friends. The best way to integrate is spend more time with our Portuguese friends.
I would love to hear your experiences!
would it be at all possible to hear from our Portuguese friends on your GMP show? Muita obrigada pela ajuda! 😊