When we talk about the table, weâre not talking about peopleâs worth.
Weâre talking about where your energy goes.
Every leader has a limited amount of attention, emotional capacity, creative effort, and spiritual focus. Your table is simply the place where those resources are spent.
Jesus cared for everyone, but He did not expend equal energy everywhere. He healed crowds, taught the twelve, and invested deeply in a few. That wasnât favoritism. It was wisdom.
If you give the same level of effort to every demand, every voice, and every need, you wonât multiply. Youâll fracture. Leadership isnât about doing more. Itâs about directing effort where it actually bears fruit.
As we step into 2026, the question isnât, âWho do I love?â
Itâs, âWhere is my energy meant to be multiplied this season?â
You can care broadly while investing narrowly.
Reflection:
Where did most of your energy go in 2025?
⢠things that produced fruit
⢠things that maintained the status quo
⢠things that drained you
Response:
Name one area, role, or focus that deserves a seat at your table in 2026 â and one that doesnât.
(You can answer publicly or privately. Both count.)