Start here: Welcome to Real Talk for Singles 50+

You've joined an exclusive community of singles 50+ who are done with the dating drama and ready to reboot their love lives with confidence, clarity, and joy. We're all about helping you attract the right relationship while actually enjoying the journey.

This post contains important information about getting the most out of this community, so please read through everything before you start. 👓

Three Levels of Participation:

1️⃣ FREE COMMUNITY (You're here!)

Read the rest of this post carefully to learn how to get the most out of the free resources and amazing community of vibrant singles navigating dating after 50.

What's included:

1 monthly special-topic session with Dessi (on Zoom)
Community of engaged members
Direct Messaging at Level 2

🌱 Want More? 🌱

2️⃣ JOIN PREMIUM for $27/mo

All the benefits of the FREE plan plus:
3 Live group calls per month + Replays
Monthly dating Round Robins to meet new people
Weekly Member Spotlight (1 male/1 female) for connection and visibility
Q&A with Dessi - Your dating questions answered weekly

3️⃣ JOIN VIP

THE LOVE REBOOT - 16 WEEK DATING MASTERY PROGRAM

This is a 16-week program that follows my signature L-O-V-E method to take you from stuck and overwhelmed to building a joyful, confident, and intentional dating life that makes the right relationship inevitable.

The Love Reboot includes:

Eight transformational modules
Weekly coaching calls with Dessi
Eight workbooks with action steps (lifetime access)
The Ultimate Dating Survival Kit for over 50 (lifetime access)
Private cohort community

👉 Learn more about The Love Reboot here👈

✨ Read Through Our Community Guidelines ✨

First and foremost, please read through our Community Guidelines to ensure this remains a valuable, supportive space for everyone.

Quick Summary:

Be respectful and kind
No soliciting or self-promotion
Keep it relevant to dating/relationships
Protect privacy - no sharing screenshots
What's shared here, stays here

📈 How To Earn Points, Level Up & Unlock Rewards 📈

Our community is designed around participation. You'll unlock new resources and perks as you engage, support, and help other members.

How Points Work:

One 'like' = One point
The more you interact and contribute quality content, the more points you earn
Your level is shown at the bottom right of your avatar picture
Points needed for next level shown under your avatar on your profile page

Your Level Journey:

Progress from Paper → Cotton → Leather → Wood → Silver → Gold → Pearl → Ruby → Diamond

Each level unlocks new resources and perks in the Classroom. Rewards coming soon.

💬 4 Easy Ways to Start Earning Points 💬

1️⃣ Introduce Yourself in "the Community"

Tell us:

Your name and where you're from
One thing you're hoping to gain or learn here
One song from any era that describes how you feel about your love life

2️⃣ Read & Agree to Community Guidelines

Read through our community guidelines and comment "I'm in!" if you agree to follow them.

3️⃣ Tell Us What You Want to Learn

What topics would you like covered in upcoming Q&A calls with Dessi? Dating app strategies? First date confidence? Red flags? Healing from past relationships? Let us know!

4️⃣ Ask the Community a Question

Jump into "I Want to Know What Love Is" (our Q&A section) and ask anything that's on your mind about dating, relationships, or your journey.

💎 Important Note About DMs 💎

The ability to DM other community members is unlocked at Level 2 (Cotton). So if you want to stay connected and build relationships in this community, start earning your first points now!

We're So Glad You're Here 🎵

Remember: Finding love after 50 should feel more like Friday I'm In Love, less like Manic Monday. This community is here to help make that happen.

Please contact me with any comments, suggestions, or questions. I read everything!

Let's reboot your love life together,

Dessi 💕

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