And I’ve been thinking a lot about new chapters. There is something about this stage of life that calls in a different kind of striving. We have lived. Loved. Lost. Rebuilt, often more than once. And at some point, you realize that every new beginning is not really new at all. It comes from every moment you have already lived through. Years of learning, failure, problem solving, picking yourself back up, and trusting that whatever comes next can be more beautiful than the chapter before. These past 2+ years have been exactly that for me. A step into a new realm and a new identity. Into building a business. (Entrepreneur) Into trusting myself more deeply. (More capacity) Into letting go of what I thought life was supposed to look like. (New vision) Into healing my body from 2 major surgeries (Accepting aging and menopause) And into love and a deepening relationship with my partner. With someone who, on paper, does not fit the expected mold. A man who has never been married. Never had children of his own. Does not come from the corporate world And if I am being honest, there was a moment where I paused. Because it is different. Because it is not the familiar story. Because it would have been easier to stay within the paradigm I understood. But growth does not come from staying in what is familiar. Love does not follow a formula. So I chose to move forward. Not because I know exactly where it will lead, but because I trust myself to navigate whatever unfolds. If there is one thing I know for sure at this point in my life, it is this: * You do not create a new chapter by holding onto the old one. * You do not build something meaningful without some level of risk. * And you do not experience real connection by staying guarded and waiting until everything feels certain. As I step into another year, I am choosing to stay open to life and to follow my aliveness. To stay curious. To keep taking risks and trust that I can handle the hard stuff. And to believe that there is still so much life and love available to us, if we are willing to step toward it.

Hello everyone. I am new to this community, but am hoping to make some new connections in my life. I look forward to meeting some of you.

Join us today for 3-4 casual and friendly Social Round Robins over Zoom—a light, guided way to meet new people, have real conversations, and enjoy human connection in a low-stress environment. REGISTER here to get the Zoom Link. We start at 12 PM EST. There’s no forcing chemistry, and no expectation to “find someone” - just small, rotating conversations. Everyone in my community is welcome! Invite your friends and online matches as well! See you there! Dessi PS: Using your desktop is recommended over a phone for the best user experience.

Has anyone completed saboteurs assessment? Any feed back? Any surprises?

I didn't realize how hard it would be to meet guys at this age. I live in a beach town. The guys I have come across are here for a weekend/week & are not really looking for a connection or to get to know you. Tried most of the apps. I have come across mostly scammers and guys with different intentions than me (LTR). Active in MeetUp groups. I am thankful for the new Girlfriends I have made. What would we do w/o them? I am convinced it is just the area I live in, which is about 2 hrs away from any metropolitan city. Anybody, guys or girls, experiencing anything similar? PS. Thru & thru I still have the "glass is half full" attitute that "my person" is out there.