New Tool - Try the Dating Decision Scorecard
Hi everyone,
One of the biggest mistakes I see people make is dating the wrong people and staying in relationships too long with the wrong partner.
That's why I created 💜 THE DATING DECISION SCORECARD.
It's a free interactive tool that helps you evaluate someone after your first three dates.
Instead of relying on chemistry alone, it helps you reflect on things that actually predict relationship success:
  • Is attraction growing—or fading?
  • Do you feel emotionally safe around them?
  • Are they genuinely curious about you?
  • Are your values aligned?
  • Are there red flags you're rationalizing?
  • How did you feel after the date—not just during it?
  • What is your nervous system trying to tell you?
The scorecard even gives you an overall recommendation:
🟢 Continue Dating
🟡 Keep Exploring (but don't become exclusive yet)
🟠 Slow Down and Gather More Information
🔴 Not Aligned
And at the end, you'll receive a personalized analysis of your results to help you make a clearer decision.
The goal is to help you date with more intention, trust yourself, and avoid getting swept away by chemistry before you've gathered enough information.
I'd genuinely love your feedback.
If you use it after a date, hit reply and let me know:
  • What did you find most helpful?
  • What's missing?
  • What surprised you?
I'm continuing to refine it, and your feedback will help make it even better.
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Dessi Schachne
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New Tool - Try the Dating Decision Scorecard
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