FYI: Iโm just speaking from experienceโฆ
I think trying to find balance between your work and your life is like trying to find balance in any relationship.
Whether in any personal or professional relationship one aspect is almost always at any period in time giving more.
Itโs very rare that thereโs complete balance: both partners giving equally, teammates contributing equally, group members carrying the load evenlyโฆ
Maybe a better goal would be to balance how we view our self-care?
โI need to maintain my exercise routine because one day Iโm going to need to lift moreโ
โItโs not selfish to prioritize me because I want to be ready and available when my partner needs me.โ
โMy health & well-being needs to be top of mind because itโs very stressful at work, and I need to be resilient enough not to bring that stress home.โ
โOver the years theyโve been there for me and now itโs my turn to be there for them, not because I owe them, but because I can and itโs the right thing to do.โ
โช๏ธYou work very hard.
โช๏ธYou know how to get results.
โช๏ธYou commit fully to the collective goal.
But are you fully committed to the goal of being the best you can be when itโs demanded of you, and then pat yourself on the back because you stepped up to the plate when you were needed and knocked it out of the park?
๐ค Wouldnโt it be better to have the confidence to give more when needed?
๐ค Know that you have the capacity to carry the load toward the goal when others canโt?
๐ค And be able to rest on your laurels because you were there when you were needed and followed through?
Thatโll never happen if you're not prioritizing your self-care.
The energy you're putting into finding work / life balance will expire before you ever find it.
But, if you put your energy into your health & well-being, working out consistently, making positive food decisions, planning your rest and recovery, thereโs one thing I can promiseโฆ
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Youโll be ready when the time comes.
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Youโll be strong enough to push through and carry the load.
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Youโll be there for those you love and who love and need you now!
โค๏ธ Prioritize you
๐ช๐ผ Strengthen you
โ๏ธ Balance you
How will you Balance yourself today?
Carlos