I currently had a conversation with someone in regards to what it truly means to be a "good honorable" person in this world. I gave them a Game of Thrones and Avatar the Last Airbender analogy. I cited Ned Stark and Unice Iroh, if you've seen the shows you already link these two people as being good honorable men. Ned Stark and Uncle Iron have unyielding integrity, fierce loyalty, profound empathy, accountability, compassion, courage to do the right thing, and they're honest. Both characters are widely accepted because they're the definition of being good honorable men and they're beloved because people like them are rare. By definition an honorable person consistently aligns their actions with a strong moral code, even when no one is watching. They're defined by unwavering integrity, a respect for others, and the courage to do the right thing even when it requires personal sacrifice. There's 5 main characteristics to keep in mind. Uncompromising Integrity: They keep their promises and live truthfully. Their actions match their words, making them highly reliable. Deep Empathy and Respect: They treat everyone with dignity. They value other people's feelings and perspectives regardless of background or status. Personal Accountability: They own their mistakes. Rather than passing blame or making excuses, they take responsibility and work to make thing right. Moral Courage: They are willing to stand up for what is right, even in the face of adversity, judgment, or personal risk. Humility and Compassion: They lend a helping hand without expecting recognition or reward. They put ego aside and are quick to forgive others. Some of the best honorable people I've meet had either one of two things or both: personal tragedies that they've overcome/grown from or have an abundant level of gratitude. These people have spent an extended period of time truly alone, introspecting, analyzing, learning, and actually getting to transparently know themselves so they can show up authentically in the world.

Hey everyone. I’m new here. I’m trying to assess whether or not I’m dateable. I’ve never had a girlfriend before until 20 and I fucked that up and then when I was 21 had another and fucked that up as well. I’m starting to think that maybe I don’t deserve to have someone of high quality or anything like that. I’m pretty much the guy that girls fib to lie to friendzone or call names. It’s what makes me hate them and the guys who are their partners. And all the girls that do come my way are either mentally a wreck or they stalk me or abuse me. I know that everyone says you don’t need to be a millionaire to have access to girls, but as for someone who has two targets on his back that’s starting to become the case for me. What’s even frustrating is that I don’t want to stress about this, but I miss being in love with someone I actually care about. At this point I don’t think true love is even possible for me anymore. Why would some girl like me in the first place?

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