Making Good Decisions When You Feel Your Worst
The Secret to Success: Making Good Decisions When You Feel Your Worst The older I get and the more experience I have running a big business, I can say with confidence that—at least for me—the number one secret has been the ability to continue making good decisions when I feel my worst. And I mean the number one secret. Not just the number one secret today, with a different number one secret tomorrow, but the consistent, enduring secret to success (for me). When a customer leaves. When a customer says I didn't do a good job. When a colleague says something that hints that they're disappointed with something I did. When I fail to do what I said I was going to do. When something personal is pushing its way into my mind. When I'm scared and I can't wake up. When I don't know what to do. These are the hardest moments of all because it's in these moments where we tend to go off track. We tend to make the wrong decision. And it's become clear that it's in these moments where you have the ability to stay on course and to continue on the path that you had declared important—or you can veer off. You can get distracted. And do any number of things that are not on that plan. So at least for me, what I can say is most of any of my success at this point right now, whatever that might be, is a result of making the right choice when I lost the ability to think rationally. And climbing my way back to a place where I make decisions aligned with my goals and values, even when everything feels like it's falling apart. Usually perspective is a good way to climb out, because life it pretty damn good, in so many ways. But as we all know that doesn't always work. But it's often the best way that I've found to get back on my feet. Hope you're having a good day = )