Monday mindset 🧠 Strong Vs Weak Decisions
When do you quit your job? When do you ask a grumpy manager for help? How do you decide whether or not to take out a personal loan? We discussed this on a coaching call yesterday, looking at about questions just like this, and we came up with a framework to help decide when it’s the right time to give in or ask for help. Keeping it simple, we divided it into “strong” and “weak” decisions. A weak decision is coming home from work after a bad shift, and deciding that you can’t handle it (and therefore, it’s time to quit). A STRONG decision is coming home after a string of bad days at work, and working out that by leaving your Job, you will be happier, healthier, and you have already found another opportunity you can start pursuing. Making a strong vs weak decision doesn’t mean reaching a different conclusion; it means having a PLAN before you get there. Taking a loan to cover your rent may always be the right thing to do (living somewhere is always optimal); however, feeling the panic of a bill one day and immediately getting the first loan you find with bad terms and a horrible interest rate is a WEAK decision. Stepping back, taking your time, and finding good solutions that will save you money or stress long term is a STRONG decision. So I've got a question: How do YOU work out how to make decisions from a strong place, not a weak place?