The real reason decisions feel hard (and how to change that)
If you’ve ever struggled to make a decision that could change your life, you’re not alone. And I’m not talking about the “big” decisions. I’m talking about the million tiny choices you avoid every day.
Reaching out to a potential client.Raising your price.Sending the email.Starting the thing you say you want. Even admitting what you want.
Most people assume they’re indecisive. But indecision isn’t the problem.
Avoidance is.
We don’t avoid choices. We avoid feelings.
The fear of looking foolish.The shame of getting it wrong.The discomfort of uncertainty.The dread of disappointment.The anxiety of moving forward without guarantees.
As Master Coach Joe Hudson says, if a decision feels “hard,” it’s because fear has already entered the picture. Once fear enters, your system starts trying to avoid an emotional outcome. Not a circumstance — an emotion.
And this is why your decisions take weeks… or never happen at all.
Here’s the part most people never realize: When you avoid a feeling, you also avoid your future.
This is why people sabotage growth right before a breakthrough.
Why they can’t hold momentum.
Why confidence flickers instead of stabilizing.
Why the same loops return every time they try to move forward.
This is exactly what we address in the Belief to Creation VIP Day.
Not by “pushing through.”Not by convincing yourself of anything.But by understanding the emotional pattern underneath the indecision and shifting it at the identity and nervous system level.
In this powerful VIP session, you will
• uncover the belief driving the avoidance
• identify the exact emotion your system is trying to escape
• find the internal rule that keeps you in the loop
• shift into a grounded, calm state where decisions become clear
• imprint a new internal state that supports movement
When you can feel the emotion you’re avoiding without being overtaken by it, your decisions stop feeling like battles.
They become choices again. Clear. Simple. Fast.
We are doing this work live on Saturday, Dec 13th, 10 AM to 1 PM Central.
This is a three-hour intensive with teaching, a live demonstration, guided work, and real-time support. You will leave with the ability to shift the emotional layer that keeps you stuck.
If you’re ready to stop circling the same decisions and start moving again, reserve your spot below.
This is the work that frees your future.
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The real reason decisions feel hard (and how to change that)
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