The Nice Guy’s Guide to Fixing Sex Anxiety & ED (Permanently)
Today’s topic is probably one of the most vulnerable and revealing things I’ve ever spoken about publicly — because it hits right at the centre of so many men’s secret struggles. We’re talking erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and the deeper psychological shame that fuels all of it.
And before you think “That’s not me”… Mate, you’d be surprised.
For years, I thought something was uniquely wrong with me. I assumed I was the only guy who looked confident on the outside but panicked inside the moment sex became real. And because no one talks about this openly, most men end up believing they’re broken, weird, or just “bad in bed.”
The truth?
This is massive. Way more common than most people realize.
In this new video, I walk through my own dark history with sexual shame — stuff I hid from everyone for years. The ED that would magically appear exactly when I didn’t want it to. The premature ejaculation. The way I’d pursue women but subconsciously sabotage anything that might actually lead to sex. The bizarre dance of craving intimacy while simultaneously being terrified it would happen.
And the kicker…I wasn’t afraid of failing.I was actually afraid of succeeding.
That’s something I see in a huge number of men I coach. They fantasize about sex, they complain about not getting enough, they talk a big game — but when a real sexual opportunity appears, they panic, avoid, or shut down. And it’s not because they don’t want it. It’s because they’re carrying a huge weight of shame that no one has ever helped them unpack.
In the video, you’ll hear about:
• Why men become more anxious the closer sex gets
• How cultural pressure and porn warp our sense of masculinity
• Why so many guys chase unavailable women
• The deep fear of being “found out” or disappointing a partner
• The subconscious avoidance patterns that stop relationships from forming
• The real reason ED and PE show up at the worst possible moment• And the shift that finally broke the cycle for me
These insights are not academic. They’re not theoretical. They come from years of confusion, embarrassment, bad experiences, avoidance, and eventually — breakthrough.
If you’re a man who has ever felt anxious about sex, or you’ve wondered why you freeze, lose interest, go soft, or sabotage intimacy, this video is going to hit home. And if you’re a woman who loves a man like this, it might give you the first real look at what’s happening inside his head.
Most importantly, this isn’t a story of doom. It’s a roadmap for understanding yourself and breaking free from shame so you can actually enjoy sex, connection, and your own masculinity again.
👉 Watch the full video here — and after you do, reply to this email or comment under the video with what resonated most.
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The Nice Guy’s Guide to Fixing Sex Anxiety & ED (Permanently)
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