Dec '25 • General discussion
How do you keep going
Lately I’ve been struggling a lot, just over a month ago my fiance of three years broke up with me because he doesn’t see the future with me anymore, we were supposed to get married in March this year but unfortunately had to postpone. I have to pack up our flat alone he isn’t willing to help and when he broke up with me he also cried and said he hopes to realize that he is making a mistake before it is too late he gave me a kiss on the forehead turned around and left we haven’t had contact for about 3 weeks now and he has been out living his best life, drinking talking to girls as if the last 3 years never happened as if I was nothing, we both made mistakes but this morning I saw that he blocked me on instagram along with all my friends and then made his account private, it truly hurts to see that I was nothing while I’m crying myself to sleep every night wondering why I wasn’t enough and how I did not leave enough of an impact for him to remember me. I just want to hurt myself so bad so I rather feel a physical pain instead of the pain in my heart. I pray but it feels like what ever I pray for the opposite happens and I’m honestly so tired, I wish to just be loved and accepted and enough and if I can have that with him I would 100% take the opportunity but I have to accept that I’ll always just be a whisper in the wind not leaving any footsteps in the lives I enter😭
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How do you keep going
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