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Start with the body. Always. đź’š
Behaviour doesn’t start with “bad choices.”
It starts with the nervous system.
When a child is dysregulated, their behaviour is not coming from logic - it’s coming from state.
Fight.
Flight.
Freeze.
Shutdown.
This is why strategies alone don’t work in the moment.
👉 You can’t problem-solve with a brain that isn’t online yet.
In BHB, we always ask:
What state is the body in first?
Because when we understand the state, the behaviour starts to make sense - and our response shifts.
Instead of:
“Why are they acting like this?”
We move to:
“What do they need right now to feel safe and regulated?”
That’s where change actually begins.
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đź’ˇ Try this today:
Before you respond to behaviour, pause and ask yourself:
Body, Heart, or Brain?
Start with the body. Always.
That one shift will change more than any script ever could. đź’š
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Start with the body. Always. đź’š
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