Hey everyone, if you are reading this, I would like you to know my thoughts that I have been having. Being an ADHDer I ended up starting two communities, one for men over 40, which as I've shared with you guys will be a premium community eventually, of which all early members will be free for life. However, I have started an open community for all genders over 40 with ADHD, and I would like you guys to join because I may put this one on pause for a while until I can build up enough community in the other one and then have the right men come over to this one and I will at restart it 😁 Nothing would change for you with your membership here, it would just be on pause until it's ready to be fired up again. Anyway, here is a link to my other community. Please join 🙏 https://www.skool.com/adhd-over-40-3875/about?ref=43dc4c8a678e40739648f7d26cd73335

Hey guys, please watch this video and give me some feedback on it, I do a lot of filming my thoughts because it's easier for me as someone with ADHD especially while I'm driving when I think the best. Maybe you can relate?

Hey guys, So I'm curious what kind of things are you interested in?As men over 40, what do you think separates you from the rest of the ADHDers? 😔 I want to hear from you guys. Is it: 1. Low energy? 2. Having trouble being a provider, or keeping up with the mask of a provider? 3. Not being happy with where you're at in your life and wanting to do something else? 4. Not being the man you would like to be in your relationship or the father you would like to be? I want to know. Please share.

I’ve spent the last two weeks in a full-tilt hyperfocus binge. Between the day job and coding these AI tools, I’ve been riding a heavy wave. When you’re over 40 and finally tap into the skills you’ve spent decades sharpening, it feels incredible to bypass the usual task paralysis. It feels like finally making up for lost time. But today, the dopamine gap is real. I can feel the neurological shutdown starting. In the past, I would have called this "being lazy" or "failing." I would have masked the exhaustion and tried to white-knuckle my way through it. Now, I recognize it for what it is: ADHD burnout. The high of the build is almost always followed by a significant crash. For men like us, the invisible internal battle isn't just about getting things done; it’s about managing the tax that comes with high-intensity output. We have a massive reservoir of capability, but our neuro-logic requires a hard reset when the tank is empty. So, I’m leaning into the recovery today. Real progress isn't just about the "wins" during a hyperfocus sprint; it’s about survival during the dip. I’m using the same AI frameworks I’ve been building to handle the executive dysfunction today so I don't have to rely on willpower that isn't there. If you’re feeling the weight of the crash today, stop shaming yourself. It’s not a lack of discipline; it’s a biological debt. Sit with the quiet. Reclaiming your time means respecting the recovery as much as the grind. I’m right there with you.