I recieved my assessment questions yesterday. F@#£ its brutal!!! Ive been reading through them to desensitise myself before I fill them in. Any advice welcome. After looking at the questions and looking at ADHD and Autism I now wouldn't be suprised if I present both!!! I really am a carbon copy of my Dad 🙈❤️

Hey. Hope everyone is alright. Holding myself accountable for some of my behaviours this week. Ive lived a roller coaster of agitation, despair or dancing around the kitchen. Ive also done some things this past week im not proud of at all. I guess we are all living and learning hey. Wishing everyone a wonderful blessed weekend. ❤️

In case anyone hasn't seen this board, Friday is the day when we Hunters look back at our week and see what we've achieved or accomplished. If you'd like to, you can share your Weekly Wins here, however big or small you might think they are. If we feel something is a win for us, it's worth acknowledging and giving ourselves a pat on the back for 🏅🏆

Been a great week for me in a variety of ways but my favourite has to be the wow moments when something clicks. And today was beautiful. A lovely self diagnosed gent in his 60s and his first session with me after many failed attempts at counselling and therapy had the OMG moment when he realised the connection between suppressed RSD & … task initiation! There’s this real visceral moment when it clicks and I watch a forty-fifty years flash before a coachees eyes as the sucker punch hits every decision made badly, every opportunity missed & every relationship ended and they realise in a split second ITS NOT THEIR FAULT, THEY AREN’T BROKEN. THEY WERE ALWAYS ENOUGH

I have gone through so many iterations of scripts & videos & reels to communicate the coaching stuff I’ve been working on for the last 3 months to make it more accessible, affordable, impactful & something else-ible! But every time I go to post I hit this irrational blockage!! … Why would it work now? It didn’t before… maybe think I’m only in it for money… coaching is the best way to change behaviours… but people just can’t justify the expense… and then… there’s you lot!! You are my evidence that perfection isn’t the thing gets you to invest time & money into a coach like me; it’s authenticity & empathy, it’s connection! You lot came along right at the moment I was gonna give it all up. Another half finished project I couldn’t get to work… I believed all the hype from these so called business coaches who strip you bare telling you they’re only taking your clothes cos you’ll be shopping in Milan in a month. But they don’t understand ADHD; they don’t understand how scared we are to piss people off but how scrupulous we can be, having been burned so many times before. So I could do with some advice… how do I share these services with you without making you think I’m like the business coaches fleecing the innocent? I think I’m just gonna share it with a straight bat.