Go outside and you’ll have an amazing life by accident
Let me tell you a story. I was going out to sort of tackle my social anxiety by going to busy places where I usually feel the most anxious. So I get ready, go into the street and here I encounter the first problem. I have to get a taxi. Here where I live you have to flag down a taxi by holding your hand out. And I was so socially anxious that that was a problem for me, I felt awkward standing in one place waiting for a taxi so I’d walk around like a retard which made not realize that there were empty taxis I could have flagged down, and even if i did notice them I may have been too scared to hold my hand out. Eventually I find a taxi and I get to the place I wanted to go. It’s a big park besides the river that's probably a few kilometers long. I walk this path and there are so many people I feel like everyone's looking at me thinking “who’s this dumbass walking around”. I walk and I walk and I walk. And then I go to leave. And as I’m leaving someone calls out for me and says “hey bro I seen you walking around here all alone”. I’m now curious to who this fella is so I exit the gate and meet him outside. Turns out this guy had also come here all alone like me. We start talking and have nice conversations, we hang out a little bit then I go home. How fucking sick is that. I just left my house and now I made a new friend without even trying. All I did was just leave my fucking home. If you just go outside random ass interesting shit always happens. Or I did something similar to that where I went to this busy café to do the same thing of confronting my social anxiety. I was sitting there thinking everyone was just looking at me and shit burying my face into my phone. I ordered once, out of order. I ordered something else, out of order. I order a third thing, and it takes 30 mins to come out. And at this point I’m a little bit pissed, I’m sat here like a weirdo all alone and it looks like I haven’t ordered anything and when I do get the courage to order it’s out of order. Randomly as I’m sitting there one of my friends randomly show up and asks me “where are the others”. “The other’s? Motherfucker I didn’t even know you were gonna show up let alone ‘others’ ”. “Oh yea bro we all planned to meet up here and shit” and I was like ok well I’m here let’s have fun. You planned to meet up here, I’ll continue with you guys then.