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Dating With Confidence

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Dating With Clarity

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9 contributions to Dating With Clarity
Blind date
I know this weird but bin busy. on a blind date with someone an im nervous what would be a good conversation an i don't want to feel like needy but more openly but not ending in previous situations an have a good break the ice impression before I talk on phone an meet for the first time
0 likes • Feb 20
@Jordan Torres i say blind date because im on a site I kind a nervous on breaking the ice because im a workaholic an always get nervous during a first meeting
0 likes • Feb 20
@Chris Hall thanks I will
Don’t know what to start working on? (Some gold nuggets for Friday)
Hey guys! Happy Fri-yay 🤭 Most men say they want to work on themselves But what they really mean is “I want dating to stop feeling stressful” So let’s make it simple When you like a woman, 1 of 3 things usually breaks down And THAT’S where you start 1) Your nervous system If your body goes into panic around women you’re into, you’ll sabotage without realizing it 👉🏻Overthinking 👉🏻Overtexting 👉🏻Trying to impress 👉🏻Freezing up 👉🏻Settling for “safe” conversations What to work on: Practice being calm while still showing interest That’s confidence Mini challenge for this week: Next time you feel anxious, do this before you talk to her Slow breath in Slow breath out Drop your shoulders Relax your jaw Then speak Your MAIN GOAL IS TO BE PRESENT 2) Your standards A lot of men chase because they don’t have a clear filter. So any attention feels like “this might be my chance” 👉🏻Then you tolerate mixed signals 👉🏻You over invest early 👉🏻You lose yourself trying to keep her What to work on: Get clear on what you want so you stop choosing from desperation Quick prompt: 👉🏻A woman I choose has… 👉🏻A woman I avoid has… If you can’t name these, you’ll keep repeating the same pattern 3) Your social confidence Confidence isn’t a personality trait. It’s a skill built through reps If you only “practice” when it’s a woman you really like, it will always feel high pressure. So you need low pressure reps. What to work on: 👉🏻Talk to people daily with no agenda 👉🏻Build comfort with eye contact, small talk, and leading a conversation Mini reps 👉🏻Ask someone for a recommendation 👉🏻Compliment someone and keep walking 👉🏻Start a 30 second convo and end it first Your real starting point: Pick the ONE that feels most true for you right now 👉🏻If dating makes you anxious start with nervous system 👉🏻If you keep chasing the wrong women start with standards 👉🏻If you avoid approaching start with social reps Comment 1, 2, or 3 and I’ll tell you exactly what to focus on first based on your answer
Don’t know what to start working on? (Some gold nuggets for Friday)
0 likes • Jan 23
@Jordan Torres i bin in the same situation
0 likes • Jan 24
@Jordan Torres sometime i will say yes but im still learning just fixing the broken record syndrome habbit
REMINDER: LIVE COACHING SESSION WILL HAPPEN NEXT WEEK!
Hey guys! Just wanted to remind you that we will be having our official LIVE COACHING SESSION NEXT WEEK (see calendar for more details). Just wanted to see who is coming so I can get a head count! TAKE NOTE: You will NOT be able to access the zoom link of the call if you have NOT accessed the START HERE MODULE under the classroom tab.
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REMINDER: LIVE COACHING SESSION WILL HAPPEN NEXT WEEK!
0 likes • Nov '25
What time sorry to ask
This hit me
Mostly I'm trying to understand some say im rushing the relationship but I was trying not feel im rushing the relationship then give up when I hear that or feel like I push the barriers. So some say i was too needy but I rather have good balance an this where I get caught the most
0 likes • Nov '25
@Shelley Badayos yes
2 likes • Nov '25
@Jordan Torres thank you i keep that in mind.
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
Happy Hump Day everyone!!! 😁 If you’ve already watched the “START HERE” module, you know how much I love celebrating wins. So from here on out, every WEDNESDAY is officially Win & Gratitude Wednesday, a little ritual for us to pause and reflect on what’s going right in our lives. No matter how big or small, dating-related or not — it all counts.Because it’s so easy to dwell on what’s not working that we forget to appreciate what is. Acknowledging our wins helps us build momentum and reinforces the mindset shifts we’re working on. So let’s start today! What are your wins this week? Drop them in the comments below!
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
4 likes • Nov '25
I make the best happen after saying awesome as a possum i always put a good foot forward an helping others
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William Marshall
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@william-marshall-2721
Just trying my best but working on myself

Active 18d ago
Joined Nov 8, 2025
Port hope ontario