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Dating With Clarity

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Don’t know what to start working on? (Some gold nuggets for Friday)
Hey guys! Happy Fri-yay 🤭 Most men say they want to work on themselves But what they really mean is ā€œI want dating to stop feeling stressfulā€ So let’s make it simple When you like a woman, 1 of 3 things usually breaks down And THAT’S where you start 1) Your nervous system If your body goes into panic around women you’re into, you’ll sabotage without realizing it šŸ‘‰šŸ»Overthinking šŸ‘‰šŸ»Overtexting šŸ‘‰šŸ»Trying to impress šŸ‘‰šŸ»Freezing up šŸ‘‰šŸ»Settling for ā€œsafeā€ conversations What to work on: Practice being calm while still showing interest That’s confidence Mini challenge for this week: Next time you feel anxious, do this before you talk to her Slow breath in Slow breath out Drop your shoulders Relax your jaw Then speak Your MAIN GOAL IS TO BE PRESENT 2) Your standards A lot of men chase because they don’t have a clear filter. So any attention feels like ā€œthis might be my chanceā€ šŸ‘‰šŸ»Then you tolerate mixed signals šŸ‘‰šŸ»You over invest early šŸ‘‰šŸ»You lose yourself trying to keep her What to work on: Get clear on what you want so you stop choosing from desperation Quick prompt: šŸ‘‰šŸ»A woman I choose has… šŸ‘‰šŸ»A woman I avoid has… If you can’t name these, you’ll keep repeating the same pattern 3) Your social confidence Confidence isn’t a personality trait. It’s a skill built through reps If you only ā€œpracticeā€ when it’s a woman you really like, it will always feel high pressure. So you need low pressure reps. What to work on: šŸ‘‰šŸ»Talk to people daily with no agenda šŸ‘‰šŸ»Build comfort with eye contact, small talk, and leading a conversation Mini reps šŸ‘‰šŸ»Ask someone for a recommendation šŸ‘‰šŸ»Compliment someone and keep walking šŸ‘‰šŸ»Start a 30 second convo and end it first Your real starting point: Pick the ONE that feels most true for you right now šŸ‘‰šŸ»If dating makes you anxious start with nervous system šŸ‘‰šŸ»If you keep chasing the wrong women start with standards šŸ‘‰šŸ»If you avoid approaching start with social reps Comment 1, 2, or 3 and I’ll tell you exactly what to focus on first based on your answer
Don’t know what to start working on? (Some gold nuggets for Friday)
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@Jordan Torres i bin in the same situation
0 likes • 17d
@Jordan Torres sometime i will say yes but im still learning just fixing the broken record syndrome habbit
REMINDER: LIVE COACHING SESSION WILL HAPPEN NEXT WEEK!
Hey guys! Just wanted to remind you that we will be having our official LIVE COACHING SESSION NEXT WEEK (see calendar for more details). Just wanted to see who is coming so I can get a head count! TAKE NOTE: You will NOT be able to access the zoom link of the call if you have NOT accessed the START HERE MODULE under the classroom tab.
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REMINDER: LIVE COACHING SESSION WILL HAPPEN NEXT WEEK!
0 likes • Nov '25
What time sorry to ask
This hit me
Mostly I'm trying to understand some say im rushing the relationship but I was trying not feel im rushing the relationship then give up when I hear that or feel like I push the barriers. So some say i was too needy but I rather have good balance an this where I get caught the most
0 likes • Nov '25
@Shelley Badayos yes
2 likes • Nov '25
@Jordan Torres thank you i keep that in mind.
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
Happy Hump Day everyone!!! 😁 If you’ve already watched the ā€œSTART HEREā€ module, you know how much I love celebrating wins. So from here on out, every WEDNESDAY is officially Win & Gratitude Wednesday, a little ritual for us to pause and reflect on what’s going right in our lives. No matter how big or small, dating-related or not — it all counts.Because it’s so easy to dwell on what’s not working that we forget to appreciate what is. Acknowledging our wins helps us build momentum and reinforces the mindset shifts we’re working on. So let’s start today! What are your wins this week? Drop them in the comments below!
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
4 likes • Nov '25
I make the best happen after saying awesome as a possum i always put a good foot forward an helping others
DATING Q&A Mondays!!
Hey guys! Happy Monday. I'll be opening the floor for your dating questions here. Comment them down below and I'll reply to them as soon as I can!
DATING Q&A Mondays!!
2 likes • Nov '25
Ok I bin off an on dating my conversation are good talking on line when come to face to face i kind try get a vibe an talk but turn out I get the jitters an want to enjoy a good time over a board game or something active,I know it calms me down an talk more but over a coffee kind of throw off the feeling to know someone an gain a vibe an find out they show there true colors of the bat or calm an collective an know their boundaries . I bin hurt, bin hit an mental abuse so I do get discouraged but I do try to go out side my comfort zone but find no matches because they all say you rather live on your own but I say I would but I rather find someone that I feel comfortable moving in with an know what I bin through i don't want move in fast I rather go with the flow an know the time is right
2 likes • Nov '25
@Shelley Badayos thank you
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William Marshall
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Just trying my best but working on myself

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Joined Nov 8, 2025
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