If you have a pattern of being the "strong one" or of being hyper independent... if you have a masculine shield up or find yourself always feeling in fight or flight... if you rebel against structure or plans because it feels "limiting" or like control... OR if you overly rely on it and are rigid with plans changing at all... This video may spark a breakthrough for you I am currently going through a big shift in consciousness around a pattern in my life It's completely changing the way I relate to myself, my business, and people This video shows you more about how you can heal your relationship by creating safety through structure What are your thoughts around this, and what is your relationship to structure? And also, in case you didn't hear... The intimate cohort starts on August 18th, and now is time for enrollment! 6 weeks to go deeper to become the most magnetic you in love and LIFE Remove love blocks, stop abandoning yourself, and wire in a magnetic you in 6 weeks without falling back into old patterns it starts on August 18th and when you enroll you get a bonus FREE in-person or virtual ticket to The Shift Experience, a 3 day live event in Sedona! (I'll be doing three live events in the next 12 months, and you can pick which one. Dates will be available soon) https://www.skool.com/the-shift-mentorship/about you will also get this if you join by tonight! - Bonus #1: 90 days of Aaron AI ($500) - Bonus #2: The SHIFT Love Method ($700) - Bonus #3: 2 VIP integration calls ($300) The only reason this is only 997 is because you went through the challenge, and I'm looking for people that can go through it first so that I can have testimonials and get it at over half off and with a live event which is bananas So if that's you, now is the time to Shift!

It keeps renewing the lease on a prison you don't even like living in. Rent due: 💰 "I'm not good enough." 💰 "It's too late." 💰 "I'll probably fail." 💰 "People like me don't do things like that." Meanwhile, reality is standing outside like... "Are you coming, or are we doing this invisible cage thing again?" 😅 Your brain isn't trying to ruin your life. It's trying to keep you alive. It prefers a familiar cage over an unfamiliar freedom. Because to your nervous system... Predictable beats possible. That's why you'll overthink instead of act. Stay in relationships you've outgrown. Talk yourself out of opportunities. And somehow become an expert at convincing yourself that your comfort zone is "who you are." 💥Spoiler alert: Your comfort zone is a location. Not an identity. The stories in your head aren't court rulings. They're drafts. They're editable. Every time you question an old belief... Every time you choose curiosity over certainty... Every time you take one tiny brave step... ...another prison bar quietly falls to the floor. You don't have to become a different person. You just have to stop believing every sentence your brain writes. After all... Your mind is a brilliant storyteller. But that doesn't mean every story deserves a sequel. 😉

What do you do when life hits hard, and everything seems to be going against you? I'd really like to hear how other people handle those seasons. The last two weeks have been some of the toughest I've had in a while. This weekend, my mind has been stuck in overdrive with stress and overthinking. It's been hard to focus, hard to work, and hard to feel free. Right now, it honestly feels like I've been on a two-week losing streak without a single win. I'm not looking for sympathy—I'm looking for perspective. What helps you get through the tough times? Is it getting outside, staying busy, talking to someone, faith, exercise, or something else? I'd genuinely appreciate hearing what has helped you.

As coaches, community owners, entrepreneurs, we're in the middle of an era where much of our connections and interactions are online-based: on Zoom, on Google Meet, in the comments, on posts. And they're great. Here on Skool in particularly, there's so many opportunities across the board to engage with content and individuals that resonate with us, whether it's what they talk/post about, opening up collab opportunities or simply just being a great person you want to connect with energetically. I myself feel this a lot of this constantly, if anything there's too many opportunities to keep up with..! At the same time, the idea of meeting people physically seems to have taken a back seat. To actually go and meet people in the flesh, connect and enjoy each other's company is something that I wonder if we can do more of..not just with strangers, but with people you've previously connected with.. I say this on the back of going to an in-person event in London last Friday. It was 10 of us in total in a conference room in a business meeting space in the middle of town. The day was centered around becoming the 2.0 vesion of yourself through identity realignment - your beliefs, your patterns, your blocks, that kind of thing. We started at 10am, clocked out at 5pm and all went for a drink afterwards in the warm summer sun. What came out from the day for me was hearing other people's stories and situations and finding that there is commonality amongst us all as humans, no matter where we're at in our journey. Someone was there who had literally just got started with their own business, whereas someone else there had been running their coaching business for years - yet each both had a sense of imposter syndrome and were stuck at the 'what should I do next?' The day dealt with us rewiring our systems to deal with notions and points where we're stuck like this, and ultimately, it felt like everyone left with a sense of what to do next for themselves and (by definition) their business.

Do you want a life where you don't even try? A life where you never took that risk? A life of complacency and mediocrity? Of course not but that is what will happen if you don't at least try to achieve your dream. Let me explain. You see one of the biggest regrets that people have when they're dying is that they didn't live a life true to themselves. They lived for others' expectations for their life. How sad is that? These are people that regretted their whole life decisions because they lived for others' expectations. To avoid the uncomfortable conversation that would have lasted just a few minutes, it would have been hard for a few days after that but after that things would go back to normal. That is what they were running from. How sad. It's really better to try and to not make it than to not do it and have regret. The worst emotion you can ever feel, what is it? It's shame. If you feel shameful too much, you will get depressed. It would even be traumatic to think back on it. So remember whatever you want to do. If you want to go all in on some dream career of yours or you want to be a doctor but your parents want you to be an architect or something, you need to just defy that. You need to do whatever it takes to at least try your dreams and sure it might not work. There's always that but just at least try your best, this is something I learned the hard way.