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Day 9: Anger is not your problem.
Most people think their anger means they’re out of control.But here’s the truth… Anger usually shows up when your life has becometoo small for the person you know you can be. It’s the part of you that refuses to settle it’s the warning light that says: “This isn’t me anymore.”“I’m meant for more than this.” You’re not stuck because you’re brokenyou’re stuck because you’ve been ignoring the version of yourself that’s ready to move. And that anger?That’s the version of you banging on the door. Instead of turning it inward or blowing up your life with it, ask yourself: “What part of me is ready to move?”“Where is this anger trying to push me forward?” Anger isn’t just frustration.Its momentum waiting for direction. Aim it right, and it becomes fuel.Aim it wrong, and it becomes chaos. But when you give your anger purpose?You become unstoppable. Question for you all: Where is anger showing up in your life right now and what might it be trying to tell you? Drop your thoughts below.Your answer might help someone else get unstuck too. I have attached a motivational speech for when you are angry to take you out of it
Day 9: Anger is not your problem.
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Anger shows up big time for me with family and I don't mean my own household. I'm realising that this is because of the scared vulnerable little girl I once was. Unfortunately im still choosing to engage or seek out validation from these people even though it's causing me pain and deep anger Tony. Cutting them out doesn't seem an option for me and this is what im struggling with. Any suggestions guys would be welcome 🙏
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Thank you Tony much appreciated 👏
Day 8 Boundaries
Boundaries aren’t about pushing people away.They’re about protecting the version of you you’re trying to become. A boundary is simply this:“This is what I allow. This is what I don’t.” Most people don’t struggle with boundaries because they’re weak they struggle because they were trained to keep the peace, stay small, or put everyone else first. But here’s the truth: When you don’t set boundaries,you don’t just lose energy…you lose yourself. TRY THIS: Ask yourself:“Where am I abandoning myself to keep others comfortable?” That’s the exact place a boundary is needed. REFLECTION QUESTION: What’s ONE boundary you need to set this week with yourself or with someone else? Drop it below. Let’s build stronger selves.
Day 8 Boundaries
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Morning Tony Family boundaries are always tough especially when your keeping those boundaries with everyone else. When im dealing with family boundaries these can put me in a place of compete chaos and disregulation to then struggling with the emotions these generate. I do get myself back but it defo can be tough
Day 3: Shutdown
Shutdown isn’t weakness it’s a survival response your system learned to stay safe. Today is about recognising it, naming it, and giving yourself the safety you never had back then. PROMPT what does shutdown look like for you and when does it usually show up? Awareness is the first step out.
Day 3: Shutdown
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Morning Tony shutdown for me is taking a break from everyone and that involves no calls or phone. However the process of coming out of these situations is by spending more time with my wee man who allows me to meet the parts of me that have felt unsafe.
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Morning Tony I've decided it's a very slow process but there is a line in sight which seems to definitely help 😀 ohh and by the way.... thank you for doing these sessions. 😇
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Victoria Loughran
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