@Charity Swedberg Exactly; it’s like, ((POOF!!!)) realizing facades are very real, & can definitely cause pain & grief… I absolutely love the way you expressed your insight here!! Well written🫶🏻💯❤️🔥💫 My only sibling put on a facade for 25 yrs; us suddenly seeing the extremely dark side of her, as she had to live with us; well, she was a true, dilly & dally with dark evil, psychopath (unfortunately); attempted to kill our father, then didn’t stop attempting bodily harm to us & my daughter… It was just as things were opening back up after the 2020 lockdown, so the jails were still closed & not taking new inmates; they couldn’t & or wouldn’t pick her up on the warrant; so, I had to keep myself armed & consciously aware & vigilant, 24/7 for 8 long winter months… I had no choice but to utilize my spiritual abilities, & stayed one step head of here at all times; I’d tell my dad, “I can feel her planning. So, just a heads up; idk what & or when, but she’s up to no good.” Within those days, here she’d come, attempting harm in some shape or form. Knowing it was already coming, it was pretty easy to keep my nervous system regulated as I matched her & reversed engineered, calling her out to play with me, instead of our elderly, abused by her, dad… After my dad exposed her to me, I never left his house & stayed right there, living with them. She’d been squatting, for 8 yrs & mentally, emotionally & financially abusing our father behind closed doors… I just happened to show up one day to visit for a weekend (I myself lived close to 3 hrs away), & I didn’t tell anyone I was coming. Had I not shown up when I did, my dad wouldn’t had lived. & I thanked God for all of my life’s past experiences & lessons at that point, bc I had to utilize, literally all the knowledge, with my spiritual abilities. It was painfully brutal to say the least, bc all my life I’d idolized my big sister. She’d lived far away from my parents & I for 25 yrs. She only visited over night 3 or 4 times… I, myself thought of her as she’d been those yrs ago; as did my dad (my mom passed 8 yrs prior, & that’s when she began her intended, long term plan, fooling everyone outside our fathers house.