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MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT - THIS IS WHAT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.
Hey there beautiful people - I hope you all are enjoying the journey towards your Best Self. I've been very quiet lately, and today you finally find out why. Because, for the last past weeks, I've been putting all my energy into a new project. And it might just be exactly what you’ve been looking for… For the first time ever, I'm hosting a limited-space collaborative 30-day cohort for the BestSelf30 Challenge — a 30-day identity-shifting experience designed to help you break out of overthinking, find total clarity and direction, and build the momentum to finally live as the version of yourself you know you’re meant to be. 🌟 And this isn't the typical "30-day Self-Discovery" or "30-Day-Fit" challenge. It's truly unlike any other out there. 🗯️ It isn't a fitness challenge. It’s not a journaling routine disguised as transformation. And it’s definitely not a quick-hit mindset sprint that fades after a week. 💡 𝐒𝐨.. 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞?💡 Instead.. It’s a 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥-𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐦 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭, built on the proven and universal principles of the 𝐓𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐚 𝐨𝐟 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬: 🫀 Soul (spiritual) 🧠 Mind (mental) 💪 Body (physical) And through the 30 days, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭: - Total clarity on who you are — and a renewed direction for who you want to become - A proven framework to build discipline, self-respect, and internal alignment - Elevated physical, emotional, and mental well-being - Real momentum that lasts beyond the challenge - And a deeper sense of confidence in the person you’re becoming ❔𝐬𝐨... 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐃𝐎 𝐈 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐍 𝐈 𝐉𝐎𝐈𝐍 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐇𝐎𝐑𝐓❔ When you join the 𝐁𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟𝟑𝟎™ 𝐂𝐨𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭, you'll instantly get access to everything needed to transform into the best version of yourself yet ⬇️ ✅ 1:1 Setup Call to align your goals and kickstart with clarity ✅ Live Group Kick-Off Call on Day 1 for a strong collaborative start ✅ Weekly Focus Themes to deepen your transformation ✅ New Video Modules + Worksheets Released Weekly to guide you through the process ✅ Daily Habit Tracker + Trifecta Score System to ensure consistency and progress
MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT - THIS IS WHAT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.
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Up for it 🥳🙌🏻
A Self Reboot: Me vs. Me ⚠️
Hey. So… I disappeared. For a while. A long while, actually. No dramatic reason — just life doing what life does best: life-ing 🌪️. I was going through a few things (okay, maybe more than a few), and needed to just vanish, pause everything, and figure out what the heck I’m doing with myself. Social media, updates, even just keeping up with people… it all felt like too much when I didn’t even have a grip on myself 🫠. But here I am — still a mess, but a mess with a plan ✨. From May 2025 to April 2026, I’m dedicating this entire year to one thing: glowing the hell up — mentally 🧠, physically 🏋️‍♀️, and academically 📚. Not for aesthetics, not for validation, not to prove anyone wrong — but because I owe it to myself to become the person I keep dreaming about at 2am when I’m having existential crises with chips in one hand and guilt in the other 🥔😅. It’s not going to be perfect. I may post daily updates. Or weekly. Or vanish again and return six months later with an emotional TED Talk 🎤. I don’t know. But I’m on it. For real this time. This year is about rebuilding. Quietly. Consistently. Imperfectly. But fully 💪. So if I’m not around, don’t worry (not like anyone's worried anyways 😭, just kidding). I’m somewhere out there drinking more water 💧, saying no to junk (and then giving in occasionally) 🍕, crying over tough chapters 😭, laughing at my own chaos 🤡, and growing — little by little 🌱. Let’s see what happens by April 2026. Spoiler: it’s going to be worth it ✨.
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Mindset: the real game changer
Title: GROWTH MINDSET vs. FIXED MINDSET Genre: Inner Battles | Rating: 100% Relatable --- In one corner… Fixed Mindset: “I can’t do this.” “If I fail, I’m done.” “They’re better than me.” “This is just how I am.” Special Move: Self-doubt & overthinking combo. --- In the other corner… Growth Mindset: “I can’t do this… yet.” “Failure is part of the process.” “They inspire me to improve.” “I can learn, adapt, evolve.” Special Move: Resilience & comeback energy. --- The Battle Begins: Mistake? Fixed: “Ugh. I’m terrible.” Growth: “Cool. Let’s try again.” Criticism? Fixed: “I’m not good enough.” Growth: “Noted. Time to level up.” Challenge? Fixed: “Too hard. Skip.” Growth: “Let’s go. I love a plot twist.” --- Conclusion: The world doesn’t need you to be perfect. It needs you to keep showing up. Choose your fighter wisely. Because mindset isn’t just how you think—it’s how you rise. #MindsetMatters #GrowthVibesOnly #SelfDevelopmentClub
1 like • Apr 16
@Tristan Gregoire This is such a refreshing take, Tristan. I really appreciate the way you brought balance to the conversation around fixed vs. growth mindsets. You're right—sometimes what we call a "fixed" mindset is actually just caution or self-preservation, not stubbornness or fear. The way you framed it helped me realize that growth doesn’t always mean pushing aggressively forward—it can also mean pausing to understand why we resist. Maybe that resistance holds a story, a lesson, or even a boundary we haven’t yet acknowledged. Thank you for the grounded and nuanced perspective. This kind of insight is what makes conversations like these so much more meaningful.
1 like • Apr 18
@Hamrah Basheer Thank you so much. Your words really meant a lot—so glad it resonated with you the way it was meant to.
What are three words you would use to describe your life so far? Why?
I want to be someone I’m proud of. But most days, I don’t even know where to start. I say I’m 'Ambitious', but sometimes I wonder if that’s just fear dressed up as hope. I chase dreams with shaky hands, telling myself it’ll all make sense someday. I say I’m 'Anxious', because I am— of failing, of being too much, of not being enough. My mind is a war zone, and I live in it every day. But I say I’m 'Trying', because I am. Even when it’s messy. Even when no one sees. Even when I don’t believe in myself. Trying is all I have left some days. But it’s still something. And I’m still here.
1 like • Apr 16
@Tristan Gregoire Thank you, Tristan. Your perspective on the power of words really made me pause. You're right—there's a subtle shift in energy between "trying" and "doing my best." One feels like reaching, the other like embracing. I’ll be more mindful of the language I use with myself. As for anxiety—yes, it does stem from the future, or rather, the unknown. It pulls on me through constant overthinking, a need to prepare for every scenario, and a fear of not being enough. It’s like a loop of “what ifs” fueled by uncertainty and a desperate desire for control. And maybe that’s where fear becomes ambition—when the fear of failing becomes so overwhelming that it pushes me to strive harder, to overachieve, to turn the noise into action. It's survival, sometimes masked as drive. Thank you for holding space for these reflections. Your questions are the kind that linger—in the best way.
1 like • Apr 17
@Tristan Gregoire I totally get what you're saying, and I agree with a lot of it. For me though, the fear of failing is kind of like a starting push—it’s not where I want to stay forever. It’s just something that keeps me moving until I build enough confidence to be driven by something more positive, like belief in myself. Hopefully, once that confidence grows, the fear won’t have to be the main fuel anymore.
This Chapter’s Mine
Hey, I’m Sukhmanpreet Kaur. Seventeen years old, somewhere between figuring myself out and faking it like a pro. I’m a storyteller at heart—whether I’m scribbling messy first drafts ✍️, sketching at 2 a.m. 🎨, or getting lost in books that feel more real than real life 📚. Words and art are my way of breathing. They help me process the chaos inside, make sense of feelings I can’t say out loud, and build entire worlds when this one feels too loud. 🌌 I want to unlock my full potential—not in a Pinterest-aesthetic, “that girl” way—but in the raw, late-night, crying-on-the-floor-then-getting-back-up kind of way. I want to grow into someone I admire. Someone brave enough to dream big ✨, try again ♻️, and stand tall even when self-doubt screams louder than ambition. I want to be proud of myself—not for being perfect, but for being real, for not giving up. I’m not the type to have a five-year plan. I’m the type to rewrite it ten times, throw it out, write a novel instead, and then stress about the novel. 📖 But I know I’m meant for something meaningful—and I’m willing to do the work to find it, to become it. My hobbies? — Turning emotions into prose ✒️ — Giving fictional characters emotional damage (oops) — Creating art that speaks louder than words — Reading books that break me in the best way 💔 — Spiraling into existential thoughts while sipping water like it’s tea ☕ So, if you’re someone who overthinks but dreams big, who feels deeply and still chooses to try— Hi, we already have something in common. I’m Sukhmanpreet, and this is me: Flawed, growing, and quietly on fire with everything I’m yet to become.
This Chapter’s Mine
1 like • Apr 12
@Tristan Gregoire Thank you so much, Tristan! Your message seriously lit something up in me. It means a lot to feel seen and supported while I’m navigating all these changes. I'm doing my best to stay consistent and show up as that version of myself I’ve always looked up to—even when it’s messy. And yes, I’ve started the Soul course too! Just taking it all one step at a time. Appreciate you rooting for me—right back at you!
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I am a dreamer with a dash of overthinking 🌀, always seeking life’s deeper meaning but somehow getting distracted by snacks 🍫

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