Hey all, I am currently flying way above everything and thought I would share some insights with you… 1) My greatest fear is flying. Not sure why or how or when it started, but wow, this is easily the toughest thing for me. The lack of control. The sudden gusts of wind. You name it. It all adds up. But I’m doing it anyway. I have dreams of seeing the world. I have people I love who don’t live close to me. I do not want to be limited by my fear. I will absolutely acknowledge it! But then I will absolutely be brave and step toward the future I am creating for myself. So… 2) “How would the secure, calm, brave version of me handle this?” And I repeat that to myself over.. and over.. and over again. I focus on my breathing. I read. Then I play a game. Then I scroll. Then I watch a movie. All the while, repeating the phrases, controlling what I can control, and stepping toward the version of me who is a frequent (and more comfortable) flyer. This is how habits are made, identity is shifted, and progress is created. 3) I can assure you we have all looked up into the sky and seen planes flying far, FAR overhead without considering whether it’s a smooth or bumpy ride, right? So here I am, way up in the air, considering what I may look like from way down below — Can I detach myself enough from the current discomfort to see the larger picture? Can I see the cars below, the buildings inhabiting hundreds of people, looking up and seeing me safely traveling through the air without being so overwhelmed by this nervousness and anxiousness? 4) I share this to encourage you, when you’re IN it, try to sit with it, alongside it, above it, or below it. Life. Will. Happen. It is not a matter of ‘if’ but ‘when’ - There is no stopping it or controlling it. We can be as proactive as possible, but nothing will test you, challenge you, or mold you like life. You have power over your thoughts. You have power over your actions. That’s it. You only have power over you. And even then we aren’t all playing with a full deck of cards, so learn about yourself. Become a scientist for how you ‘tick’. And then decide if this version of you is the same version you want to continue being.